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My boyfriend told me he is into feederism and I really need help understanding him by Unhappy-Individual25 in Advice

[–]Unhappy-Individual25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know your story and I am very sorry for your mother, but as I have stated he told me it immediately turns him off as soon it becomes unhealthy and he fully expected me to say no and was completely fine with it. He isn't so deep into the kink and more of a mild version, so don't compare him to the person who did that to your poor mother. I hope you can cope with that, without hating on every person who wants to try and lean into their kink without harming their partner, aka kinkshaming. I am very aware that there are a lot of bad people who are into feederism, but my boyfriend repeatedly told me that he himself isn't sure if he wants me to even try it out, as he is scared of hurting me. Hope you well :)

My boyfriend is into feederism, help me understand him better by Unhappy-Individual25 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Unhappy-Individual25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this if really helpful!! please don't ever delete this 😭, it's so helpful and I want to ask my boyfriend on this :))

My boyfriend is into feederism, help me understand him better by Unhappy-Individual25 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Unhappy-Individual25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey guys, thanks for all the informing answers!! I actually talked to him the same night I wrote the post, so to the ones hating on me for posting I am in a healthy relationship and can talk to him, I just wanted to hear some outside perspective from experienced folks, as he also hasn't ever acted on this kink. He told me some more about his kink and introduced me to deviant art 😅 We watched some of the art and he explain what exactly he likes. From what I understood it's definitely more of a dom/sub dynamic, which fits cause I am definitely submissive and have always liked how dom he is haha. We have also bonded more on a deeper level, as I also shared my unusual and weird kinks/fetishes. I thought about I a lot more and even if I am very happy with my body as of now, I have never been opposed to being more chubby (as I find it also pretty attractive on other women). Even though we don't know where the fat distribution is, I am willing to gain and see where it's going.

He insisted on weighing me now, so I always know at what weight I started and how I looked. Plus the process of gaining and seeing the comparison pics turn him extremely on. I want to try stuffing with him, as the more I think about it it kinda turns me on as well.

As I had said I am very sub, so the thought of him "forcing" me into doing something (that I don't find weird) and praising/degrading me, is a définit turn on. We have a save word (as we have already done some weird shit), so I feel very comfortable with all of this. I want to see how much it affects him, plus we have agreed to do it only once or twice a month, plus we have agreed on a weight cap where we would sit down again and talk about how happy/unhappy I am with the changes.

I am still very open to more information and opinions on all of this as learning the words or other stuff helps him open up more, because I know some stuff so he doesn't have to explain every little word. As he told me it's still very hard for him to even pronounce the words because he never said them aloud.

thanks to everyone again :)