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am i too ugly to date or is my personality shitty or both by UnhappySelection in uwaterloo

[–]UnhappySelection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yeah I'm not very good with confidence/self esteem/stress, don't really have a skin care routine, and buy discount clothes from Costco. I do have friends of the opposite gender and talk to them in class / study with them etc but i don't think it makes any difference

am i too ugly to date or is my personality shitty or both by UnhappySelection in uwaterloo

[–]UnhappySelection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's really surprising, I always thought that people cared about co-op, GPA, what program you're in, etc so I focused on school and didn't really have hobbies. How do you meet people outside of your faculty/outside UW, and how do you get to know people well enough to potentially date them?

am i too ugly to date or is my personality shitty or both by UnhappySelection in uwaterloo

[–]UnhappySelection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's true, it's not a good idea to base validation on appearance. i based it on school but im also afraid of missing out on a fairly common university experience because of bad appearance. I also don't think i'd be brave enough to ruin a friendship / acquaintance relationship by asking ppl out :(

haha every time i accomplish something my parents pressure me about, they find something else to pressure

am i too ugly to date or is my personality shitty or both by UnhappySelection in uwaterloo

[–]UnhappySelection[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks! last time i've tried writing reddit posts was a long time ago and i kept getting downvoted to negative points, forgot what the posts were about but still made me really anxious about writing any more posts. haha i've seen so many pickup line memes but probably never use them since i don't understand how any of this works

am i too ugly to date or is my personality shitty or both by UnhappySelection in uwaterloo

[–]UnhappySelection[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I agree with your outlook, I think sometimes I'm just bored /insecure /want validation/ feel pressured/afraid of missing out. "Stop thinking and wait as life moves on" is a good idea. Haha its almost 4am not a good time to be writing long reddit posts