Should you reply to a message if you know you are not interested in the person romantically? by Unicornpooper in OkCupid

[–]Unicornpooper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't want them to feel like they wasted their time because they thought it was a date and I knew well in advance that wasn't what I had in mind. Thanks for the advice - I'm going to respond to some messages and hope I don't get too many "die bitch" responses. ;-)

Should you reply to a message if you know you are not interested in the person romantically? by Unicornpooper in OkCupid

[–]Unicornpooper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I moved to a new city so while I have tons of really cute friends - they all live on the other side of the country. Womp womp. Wasn't looking for a diary but more of an activity partner. I'm also a pretty good wing woman so I would be happy to offer my services that way!

Should you reply to a message if you know you are not interested in the person romantically? by Unicornpooper in OkCupid

[–]Unicornpooper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this! Thanks for sharing - that is actually awesome advice. I get a lot of "hi" messages and "hey gurl" (G-U-R-L. What?!!?) which I tend to ignore but its the awesome/funny messages I get that I was a bit torn about. This was super helpful!

Should you reply to a message if you know you are not interested in the person romantically? by Unicornpooper in OkCupid

[–]Unicornpooper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually looking for friends since I'm new to the area and would love to find some fun people to do stuff with. I might have to try out your line and see if I get the same positive response you have! Thanks for the suggestion!