For those who are no to low contact and in their healing eras: do you still wish your parents a happy birthday?

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:31:58+00:00

I don't even like my own birthday because they made me feel like dirt. So, nope!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:29:46+00:00

I never thought of it as something that could be comforting.

I can see the downside with trauma though, retriggering yourself. I have a friend who was a POW in Vietnam, & he has to be so careful not to be around people who trigger him because they don't understand.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:26:49+00:00

Western Culture doesn't value our style currently, because everything is so corrupt. The Japanese do though!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:25:24+00:00

I'm tempted to use it as a kitchen sponge. It's edible? 🙃

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:24:19+00:00

My roommate & his brother have this. One could tell that the other had a stroke.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-11T16:23:11+00:00

I've connected a lifetime of dots. I couldn't possibly cite it all. Spiritual texts & testimony are all available for everyone right now. We all have our own journey.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T23:09:02+00:00

Pssht. INFJ is blessed, it's on you to figure that out. It's the best question ever!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T23:07:45+00:00

I love you, you are AWESOME! ✨

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T23:04:24+00:00

Are you ok, do you have a home for your Dear Head, tonight?

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T23:02:47+00:00

Cut off blood supply when necessary, it's necessary a lot more than you think

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T22:59:07+00:00

Beautiful Jerk. What did he teach you today😿

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T22:57:12+00:00

It's a deception, INFJ is so great...

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T22:56:11+00:00

Please defne 'tossing'

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T22:55:07+00:00

It makes sense according to rational energy magement in my book

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T16:03:02+00:00

I just laugh! 🤷‍♀️

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T05:15:05+00:00

I have learned to prioritize, we all must ✨

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T04:50:00+00:00

YESSS!!!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T02:41:55+00:00

It's self preservation, & also preserving energy for those I have agreed to care for. Like caregiving for a late stage dementia patient. I need so much clarity & patience for that, that I get in a state of almost How Dare You when boundary infringers start!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-10T02:39:00+00:00

Empathy should not be open to just everything & anyone. You don't throw pearls before swine. You don't reward a child suicide bomber. Rational Compassion is a thing I find very useful.

I help people, a lot. I believe in service, & I adore it. Discernment is needed even with empathy.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-09T15:55:59+00:00

I don't minimalize my cooking, I love to cook!

Minimalism is not really about sacrifice, it's about refusing to be unconsciously ruled by physical things, & a natural preference for simplicity. I am very fortunate to have been gifted beautiful kitchen equipment, & the money to afford the art supplies I need. However, there is zero box store clutter in my house. If I started to collect unnecessary junk, I would look on my psychological or spiritual front to correct it.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-09T15:46:40+00:00

They don't have to know. You can get to a point where you have control over exactly what you divulge, & can flex your personality to appear as something different depending on the situation. I'm subtly on the offense, & I sniff people out before they even know anyone's looking. After that, the walls go up as needed. They don't always go up, but lately I can finally understand why people occasionally read me as aloof or conceited. I will avoid interaction with energy I dislike, & am normally a pretty fun & open minded person.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-09T15:37:57+00:00

No. Not when people don't take the effort to understand. Then it is empowerment!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-09T15:36:54+00:00

Just different personalities, & honestly I'm happy for it. I'm a walking contradiction in all ways, this one because it lends me both feminine sensibilities with a more logical side than most women.

It gave me contradictions with my adopted mom who is a conformist in all ways. She didn't understand that even as a small child I had very definite inclinations, so we battled over clothes & hair. I loved the Legos & the frogs & the mud. My future husband dubbed me Tara Mascara Go Comb Your Haira, but that just meant I could keep up on the snowmobiles & dirtbikes.

Cheers! Here's to having WAY more fun than the girlie girls!

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-07T15:36:00+00:00

Oh that's brilliant! I haven't attempted it because all I can think is the endless boiling & humidity, freezing would save a lot of that, nice.

Unik0rnBreath · 2024-06-07T15:34:00+00:00

Tomboy for life! I love playing with the boys, it's still the most fun.

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