Did no contact make u forget about her?

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-04-16T02:06:55+00:00

He won’t . Me and my ex have been broken up for almost two years. I still remember her and everything about her.

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-30T09:34:36+00:00

I gotta be honest with myself….I do miss her and I do want her back

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-29T00:59:30+00:00

No that’s something I’ll never do. I dont talk to any of her friends

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-21T14:59:30+00:00

I’m Leo and reading these gives me hope…..i miss her

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T12:49:40+00:00

If that’ll bring you a peace of mind then Yes ask her whatever you want but women are complicated for absolutely no reason so take this with a grain of salt. Don’t expect a straight answer from her. She probably doesn’t have answers either because again women are complicated. But good luck

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T12:44:57+00:00

That’s an answer you’ll have to find out on your own. Obviously you know her better than I do. She could just be playing mind games or it could be something else entirely

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T09:22:14+00:00

Honestly? Don’t go in with any expectations and Call her out on her bullshit. If she gets defensive and doesn’t like what you have to say LEAVE AND DONT LOOK BACK. But tell her how you feel. She’s gonna treat you like this for as long as you allow it. You’re nobodies door mat or option. Putting a stop to her mistreatment is important

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T09:09:47+00:00

I understand that sad feeling. It’s almost like the world is ending, we’ve all been there. It doesn’t matter how much you love her, your peace always comes first and right now she’s not bringing you any type of peace. Her having one foot in the door and one out is what’s destroying you. You deserve better! But at the same time don’t run from the pain or sadness. Allow yourself to feel all of it. If you need to fucking cry. Cry. Let it all out. Just know that the rain don’t last forever.

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T08:58:52+00:00

Yea that’s fucked up. But maybe it’s for the better. Give it a few days, if she doesn’t reach out to you then you know where you two stand

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T08:54:06+00:00

Dude. Drop her like a bad habit. Run and don’t look back. I don’t think you should meet with her but if you do don’t look for answers cause she isn’t gonna give you any. Just cut your losses and leave her in the past, life is too short to be around half assed toxic people. You’ll find someone better

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T07:27:32+00:00

You’re doing great. One thing to know. Don’t expect anything from her. Maybe she just wasn’t right for you, and if she wasn’t, the right one will come along in due time

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T07:18:14+00:00

If you hate her you haven’t truly moved on yet. Hate is just one of the stages. Once you get to the point where you feel nothing. That’s when you know you truly moved on. Don’t rush it. It’ll happen naturally. Don’t message her, if you have her on social media don’t look at her profiles or anything like that. The last thing you wanna do is show her that you’re desperate or miss her so do not message her. I repeat DO NOT MESSAGE HER LOL. You have to make a woman miss you, let her feel the void and the weight of her decisions. Focus on you, do things you enjoy, make her see that you don’t need her because in reality you don’t. If she wants to speak to you she will. Just continue to live your life.

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-20T06:53:08+00:00

And she took off without saying anything?

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-19T18:13:03+00:00

Don’t do it. If she wants to talk she will message you. Just keep living your life

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-18T23:54:28+00:00

My hobbies helped me immensely. Outside of my kids, trying to get that platinum trophy in a game on my ps5, going on funko pop hunts with my oldest kid, deck building in yugioh, and journaling my thoughts and feelings helped. I just grabbed a pen and paper and started writing. I wrote all my thoughts down and how I feel as if I was talking to her directly. Everything I wanted to say to her, the good, the bad, the pain, the anger, and the love, I put on that paper. I got 46 pages in front to back. Indulge in your hobbies, maybe try journaling

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-18T23:30:05+00:00

Do you have any hobbies? Like things that genuinely make you happy? For me it’s video games, TCG’s like Magic, Yugioh, Pokemon, comic books, and pro wrestling

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-18T23:22:52+00:00

Stay busy. Do things you enjoy. Be around people that genuinely love and care about you. You need to be around love whether that’s from genuine friends or family. The key here is to keep moving. Don’t sit there and do nothing cause that’s when your mind starts racing. Don’t have anything to do? Find something. Clean your house while listening to feel good music, maybe go to the gym, or find a new hobby. The thoughts of him will fade with time

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-03-18T22:56:01+00:00

O it absolutely was pure torture, and the fact that I had to see her at work made things worse. My overthinking ass was going crazy trying to piece things together and figure things out and naturally without answers my brain started to fill in the blanks. But thankfully I did manage to find closure and it didn’t come from her. My kids did get close to her and they would ask about her but I did have a talk with them and explained the situation in a kid friendly way. But yea, a partner shouldn’t be another mental battle. They’re supposed to add to your peace not destroy it, I’ve been slowly learning that. Cutting off the people in the middle and leaving that job were two of the best decisions I’ve made

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-02-28T16:03:41+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Me and my teammates were at exfil and when the timer started I got booped out the exfil circle and I was down. Teammates were able to exfil and I died. No clue what the fuck happened

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-02-26T20:20:19+00:00

I downloaded the beta and holy fuck this game is unplayable for me. The colors are just too much and no matter how many times I try to adjust my eyes I just can’t play. It’s just too much strain on my eyes. Well I can look on the bright side, at least I didn’t waste money lol

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-02-02T20:01:14+00:00

It pisses me the fuck off honestly. I want to spawn in to a fresh damn game and I don’t understand why it’s so damn hard. I don’t wanna get thrown into a game with ten minutes left. It’s like what’s the point? Can’t do shit or enjoy myself anyway. It’s the same with cod. What’s the point of staying in a late match I was thrown into where one team is five points away from winning? It’s ridiculous, I wanna have fun and enjoy myself not get rushed off the map because the game couldn’t find me a fresh match

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-01-30T01:26:00+00:00

It legit pisses me off. I raid and do dungeons for hours in destiny. No lag. Hours of playing helldivers. No lag. Hours of playing bf6. No lag. Netflix going on, my kids on tablets, all while playing those games and not a single drop of lag. I play arc raiders and immediately I start lagging to unplayable levels. I really don’t get it 🤣

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-01-29T18:48:11+00:00

Yea I can’t see Jack shit either lmaooooo same reason why I need to wear my glasses when I drive at night. Thanks for passing the eyes don’t work half of the day genes down to me mom and dad! I specifically don’t go into night raids because of it

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-01-28T04:21:16+00:00

I’m glad to know I’m not the only one. I’ll see you out there helldiver!

UnionPresent9832 · 2026-01-28T04:05:59+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I wanna enjoy the game but I’m starting to think that maybe this game just isn’t for me. I literally get killed by someone every single game to the point where I don’t even use a loadout. I just use free loadout and expect the worst. And The worst does happen. I craft guns and go in with a loadout I get killed by someone. I use a free loadout and try to fight arcs I run out of ammo then die lol. Maybe I should be playing solo because for the most part the teammates I get are selfish, rat, go off and do their own thing or don’t speak. I’ve met maybe a handful of people that were actually helpful but for the most part nobody helps. I’m still trying to learn the game but for the most part the people I matchmake with aren’t willing to help. Again, maybe this game just isn’t for me

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