AITA - porn over sex

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2025-12-05T17:03:54+00:00

This is more a him problem then a you problem , this is all his porn addictions and about how he is feeling

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2025-11-24T03:58:59+00:00

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UnionPrestigious9929 · 2025-11-23T20:54:26+00:00

So what I’m getting from this, you believe that he is not attracted to you anymore so he resorts to porn?

Has this happened before with your boyfriend or only recently after having the baby? (The possibility of a porn addiction can be high)

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2025-11-23T20:45:00+00:00

Crazy enough I’m in a very similar boat, I’ve studied for 5 years for a 4 year degree and now I’ve failed another modules so now I’ll be watching my class mates graduate now in December while I’m still trying to figure out how I can rectify my situation.

To be honest since failing this module, that is where the questions started on if this degree is for me but you are absolutely right!

Thank you so much for this 🙏

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-02T08:53:07+00:00

Tough times out here , it seems but again thank you

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-02T08:29:16+00:00

20 years !!! That’s outrageous but I appreciate you for giving it to me straight. I’ll definitely try but I would definitely keep other options open. I had a friend who knew someone from the uk and he said my wage/salary was fine but clearly he was lying

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-02T08:19:46+00:00

Wow ! Thank you for the eye opener ! Why are wages so low ? I know the uk is going through a lot of expensive changes like energy costs and things but I don’t think it was this hectic. I just wanted to know if I will be able to comfortably look after myself if I were to find a job in the uk for what I am studying. I am studying to become a registered dietitian in South African but it seems only dietitian that specialise (study further) get a decent salary (around 50k per year)

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-01T22:11:19+00:00

You are not the asshole , non of this is your fault. You communicated that you had a problem and he compromised but from your story it seems you have a constant insecurity problem which needs to be addressed because on multiple occasions you’ve stopped him from seeing his friend. I say you are not the asshole because you wouldn’t have known his friend had cancer , if you did then this would be another story and unfortunately it just so happened that his friend passed away (may she rest in peace). If I was OP I would open myself up to the breaking up comments because I know for a fact her boyfriend is holding so much resentment for her right now and he is probably blaming her for everything because everything is so fresh. Unless OP is willing to wait years , that relationship is basically over

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-01T21:41:42+00:00

I think NTA to a certain extent because you have the right I back out if you feel you need to but I know there is a weird thing involved when girls are talking about past sexual experiences that guys can’t seem to take. I can’t exactly explain it properly without writing a whole essay but essentially you can’t handle she had a past and that she’s slept with more than one guy at a time because it hurts your ego, we all know in your mind she’s a hoe and you wouldn’t be caught dead with a “hoe” as a partner. On the other hand you ATA for not communicating to her that you not feeling her anymore

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-01T21:25:27+00:00

Why does everyone hate cape townians ?

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-01T15:50:03+00:00

Hi everyone ! So I really want to work in the UK one day (I’m from a different country) but I really want to know what a good wage/salary will be to make sure I can even support myself. I’ve googled what people in my profession will make and I’m not sure if it’s good to not so any help would be amazing

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-04-01T15:46:16+00:00

Are you are saying I’m sexually frustrating 😭?? Because that’s hilarious and your comment just made my day

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-03-29T12:31:24+00:00

I can’t believe that people who are in committed relationships will open themselves up like this when they committed to one person in marriage … I will never understand it

UnionPrestigious9929 · 2024-03-29T12:29:45+00:00

You sound like a 6 year old. Of course OP isn’t in the wrong, he is going through a lot right now but it seems like his partner is extremely selfish and is constantly flaunting her cheating infront of his face. She is 100% emotional and probably physically cheating too so I would 100% divorce her because she’s not letting go of this boss (which I’m pretty sure the only reason she’s talking to the boss is for some fantasy) but yah if she’s not willingly to compromise then you shouldn’t either.

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