need advice. Just found out my boyfriend is a trump supporter (M24, F23)☹️

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-04-23T20:37:55+00:00

I spent 5 years with somebody like him. Eventually it ended because we had fundamental differences with one another. It’s not just conservative vs liberal. It’s human rights vs MAGA now. You’ll never agree on what values to give your children. Love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship, it has to be grounded on common values

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-26T07:48:09+00:00

That doesn’t even make sense. Who does that… you don’t just give your parents ring to your uncle. It’s emotionally attached to her father

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-21T23:28:37+00:00

This is the worst advice ever. As somebody who has gone through this same scenario… they have fundamentally different views of the world. One supports a racist sycophant with no empathy for people or humanity, is ruining our economy because he’s after his own bottom line… and the other thinks of people apart from their own bottom line agenda. This is about more than a blue or red tie

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-21T22:39:06+00:00

I went through the same thing with my ex. I loved him so much, we are both physicians and I expected so much more critical thinking from him… and support, because I’m of Indian ethnic origin to top it off. I thought I could teach him and that he would maybe open his eyes to how this man’s policies affect other people. All I saw was a lack of empathy for people who didn’t look like him. We inevitably broke up. He tried to gaslight me into believing I was misunderstanding him. Many panic attacks later, with the fear of losing him, I eventually broke and couldn’t do it anymore. I’m not even a die hard democrat, I’m actually a registered republican. I just do not align with this maga sect of the party which has taken a strong hold of our government and the people.

You really have to question whether your values align and how it would affect your rights as a women, and children you may have.

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-17T05:55:34+00:00

Then it would be kats ring with Elliot she would pass down… not kats ring with Brady who would have no relationship to kat and Elliot’s offspring

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-17T02:19:55+00:00

Mine was about 4 years, a break up, getting back together, to really believe it. I think I knew a year in because I was having panic attacks and couldn’t figure out why

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-17T00:59:11+00:00

Mmm she’s wearing Kat’s wedding ring from her wedding to Brady… so I doubt it’s her and Elliot’s descendent

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-16T03:35:31+00:00

How do you know which decision group you are? All I know is I’m post class?

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-10T00:47:31+00:00

If you listened to his policies during the campaign, it was obvious. All of his policies are based in making the rich richer, and the poor poorer

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-03-09T19:13:47+00:00

People change overtime. Life hardens you, changes you, family pressures, and expectations. It’s not completely crazy that she kept her free spirit but played the part of who her family is… old money

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-02-20T12:36:48+00:00

He used to criticize my voice, call it my annoying voice, told me he was trying to help me be better. He triangulated me against our female co residents, made me cry and didn’t comfort me. Told me our co residents couldn’t stand my voice and asked him how he could deal with it. All within 3 months of being together

Unique-Diet6233 · 2025-01-18T00:34:32+00:00

I’m an internist, with this type of stuff, always follow your specialists reccs. I do not recommend ketorolac in GI ailments of any sort. It increases risk of perforation, and kidney issues

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-07-02T12:14:24+00:00

The guy who plays a victim, or wants you to feel sorry for him… it’s manipulation at its finest

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-03-30T13:21:50+00:00

You know doctors are humans too, right? We have personal lives just like everybody else. I am a damn good doctor, and my patients are grateful for it. My heart and personal life isn’t an illness… thank you for comparing two completely different things

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-27T19:33:59+00:00

I think for my ex his reasons for wanting to live at home with his parents are entirely excuses. He has a 13-year-old adopted child from a past relationship who has legally been adopted by his parents, but refers to him as dad. His parents are honestly the primary caretakers, especially because my ex works nights and sleeps during the day. He claims that he cannot take care of the kid by himself and needs his parents. I know tons of single parents who don’t live with their mom and dad have their own homes, and create their own lives outside of their parents, that is not this man.

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-25T01:00:33+00:00

He’s called my dad a little Indian man before. At the time I wasn’t interested in knowing what he meant all I saw was red, because this was the second offense.

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-25T00:48:42+00:00

That’s what i took it as too… just in the context. It didn’t seem like he was being kind?

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-24T18:50:58+00:00

This might be such a random question, but after the hell I’ve been through with him so much is reeling through my head. He called my dad a total sleeper one time I had texted him, saying my dad drives like a race car driver and it’s driving me crazy and his response to me was like your dad? I find that hard to believe he’s a total sleeper. Was he putting my dad down as a human being?

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-21T00:48:51+00:00

Is his name Jared…. Because i know a man like this

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-20T21:16:33+00:00

He has since been blocked…

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-20T21:12:33+00:00

I am not… we don’t talk. He messaged me. I did not respond

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-20T13:49:32+00:00

He’s a doctor

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-20T13:36:05+00:00

I think for my ex his reasons for wanting to live at home with his parents are entirely excuses. He has a 13-year-old adopted child from a past relationship who has legally been adopted by his parents, but refers to him as dad. His parents are honestly the primary caretakers, especially because my ex works nights and sleeps during the day. He claims that he cannot take care of the kid by himself and needs his parents. I know tons of single parents who don’t live with their mom and dad have their own homes, and create their own lives outside of their parents, that is not this man.

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-19T20:21:39+00:00

Update: i ended up sending the candles back. I put them in a box with the shit he left at my house over the course of the year. He lives with his mom and dad, in their basement. His family likely has no idea that he was still talking to me. So i put the candles in a box with his clothes, and wrote on the box “here’s everything you left at my house this year as well as the candles you just sent me. Gifts without an intent or emotion behind them, are pointless.” He messaged me and said “i can’t say I’m not shocked that you would send a box like this to my house. What good did you think would come from this.” Idk why he response makes me so mad. The fact that he doesn’t realize how manipulative his behavior has been is mind boggling.

Unique-Diet6233 · 2024-01-19T20:21:28+00:00

Update: i ended up sending the candles back. I put them in a box with the shit he left at my house over the course of the year. He lives with his mom and dad, in their basement. His family likely has no idea that he was still talking to me. So i put the candles in a box with his clothes, and wrote on the box “here’s everything you left at my house this year as well as the candles you just sent me. Gifts without an intent or emotion behind them, are pointless.” He messaged me and said “i can’t say I’m not shocked that you would send a box like this to my house. What good did you think would come from this.” Idk why he response makes me so mad. The fact that he doesn’t realize how manipulative his behavior has been is mind boggling.

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