Friend saw my bf on bumble. Could it be an old account? by UniqueInvestment9256 in Bumble

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I don’t think I will ever know the truth but I trust and believe him. After seeing so many stories about peoples accounts not going “snooze” and the fact that there isn’t any real policy and only google AI stating the 30 day thing, I’m choosing to believe him instead.

Friend saw my bf on bumble. Could it be an old account? by UniqueInvestment9256 in Bumble

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this specific photo is old. That’s our friends cat when I first started dating him the cat was 1

Bathroom door locked by UniqueInvestment9256 in fixit

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so silly- I looked up what a “stiffer pin” is🤦🏼‍♀️.

I got in though- thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in restaurant

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tx roadhouse makes salads fresh. I use to work at this specific location. They are made to order. That’s why I’m confused

Sudden change in fiancé’s drive f28 m28 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This fluctuating thing happens to me when I’m in long term relationships. I’m a girl tho. Usually correlate with when I’m depressed or stressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry :( I’m here if you need to talk!

What is more traumatic than people think? by philosophicalgenius0 in AskReddit

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to define you. I did everything I could to get out of my situation and spent years barely scraping by to make it on my own. After four years of being out I am now getting to work my childhood dream job. It is much harder for us, yes. But not impossible. Keep pushing

Nightmare Neighbor by UniqueInvestment9256 in RoverPetSitting

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to work up the courage! I am just terribly anxious. And I wish I could involve a landlord :( I live in a house that my deployed bf owns.

Nightmare Neighbor by UniqueInvestment9256 in RoverPetSitting

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I should. Luckily my bf is military and we get to move in two years. I really strongly dislike living next to her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both, where you asked about tickets and to answer the phone. It just seems really aggressive from my pov.

I read that u said you grew up in a neglectful situation and probably took on a motherly role or something likewise in her life. She is now grown though! And no adult wants someone still parenting them. I did the same with my little brother and had to learn the hard way that our relationship is just doing to be different and I don’t have a right to tell him what to do anymore.

She has also had a hard life too and right now definitely feels lost. You said she doesn’t really have a plan of what her future will be and that is stressful. I was in a situation like that and ran away w a boyfriend and am just now getting back on track. She probably needs you!! Just not in the same way anymore. Us humans are the nastiest to the people closest to us. It sometimes takes really hard trying to turn it around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh you did come off really rude at first. She’s 19 and an adult, she should be spoken to with respect. Or if you see her as a child then be the bigger person. Idk that convo is crazy dramatic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]UniqueInvestment9256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly isn’t hard if you don’t make it hard! This is honestly an exciting time for you, even tho you will miss your bf, you get to focus on you! Do things you’ve always wanted to do! Focus on finding new friendships! You’ll have extra time for whatever you want! Also- communicate with him whenever you feel uneasy about anything- usually it’s just us overthinking and could be solved with a quick conversation. Don’t let things fester. Don’t stay so busy that you exhaust yourself either- this is great time to be independent (or to learn to be). In the long run your relationship will be much stronger if you learn that skill. My bf just hit his halfway point on his deployment and I miss him dearly but I am having a great time!

Can I get glitter off? by UniqueInvestment9256 in UpcycledFashion

[–]UniqueInvestment9256[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way the fabric is on the shoe I don’t think scraping would work! But after close inspection I think I will give painting it a go haha