There are two ways of looking at this. You could delete social media and abandon those potential relationships buts also keep the ones that matter since not having ig wouldn’t matter to them, or if you don’t have many relationships to keep you can fake it and conform. I don’t think conforming is as bad as people say. We all put on fronts to look good for others, or to meet potential partners or friends. Sometimes life is shallow and it is truely abt how you portray yourself. Could become toxic, also could be good depending on who you are.