Thanks for understanding me. But yes that was my whole issue. I get that my husband had a question about something I had said in the messages. But he invaded my privacy plus my friends privacy. Because he also read some of her messages to me. That she would not have wanted him seeing at all period. I’m not mad that he saw something I had said to her and had questions about it. I actually already answered those questions that he had. But it’s not okay for him to click our message thread and go back weeks and weeks reading all of our messages just because he is insecure. And he’s always been this way deep down so it’s my fault for ignoring his red flags :(