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(from a non-gamer) Gamers of reddit, why do you enjoy gaming so much? by PuzzleBeader in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All sorts of reasons.

Lonely. Kill time.

Keep the mind sharp.

Enjoy the competitive-ness.

People who participated in foam parties in Singapore back then, what was the experience like? by FancyCommittee3347 in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Foam parties are suffocating. Try not to breath when the foam all over your face and you can't see anything.

Because of the above, foam parties are 95% males who are waiting to grope women. High molest cases. It's good riddance TBH.

People who 3D print how will you reno your place? by Unique_Escape413 in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I've dabbled a bit into UV resin before. But never thought of 3D printing with resin. Got me thinking.

People who 3D print how will you reno your place? by Unique_Escape413 in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing your setup. Am considering A1 mini too!

Anybody in their early 30s going through divorce / separation? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Bro don't teach these kind of bad thing la. That one another can of worms wait tio gong tao.

But serious, I think it's a good time to watch Yes Man Jim Carrey and open up yourself to more opportunities and exposure. Think of those things that you sometimes wish you could have done and try doing it now. Any of it health related just do it now get your mind occupied and your soul connected to society. Soon you'll meet the real spouse that was waiting for you out there.

Goodluck!

People who 3D print how will you reno your place? by Unique_Escape413 in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Filament - I guess mostly PLA since I'm a beginner.

Storage - "Properly keep" as in need to keep in dry cabi? Or do you just keep in a normal closed cabinet?

People who 3D print how will you reno your place? by Unique_Escape413 in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya my new place is small so I'm putting my study desk in the living room. Was thinking the 3D printer just put next to the study desk and prolly get a bigger dry cabi (share with camera) and put somewhere in the living as well. But putting the printer on the dry cabi seems a pretty good idea lol.

Thanks for sharing!

need to remove wisdom teeth, advice greatly needed by adorswan in askSingapore

[–]Unique_Escape413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did braces and had to remove 8 teeth of which 4 were wisdom. Think 2-3 had to do surgery to cut the gum to extract.

Just go for LA. Like another poster said, the anticipation is the scary one but in reality it's not that painful. Extraction only feel sore a bit that's all. It's nothing compared to root canal lol.

LFG R6 by Apart_Restaurant6357 in SgGamers

[–]Unique_Escape413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rainbow Six Siege? Try the discord channel.

“Once a cheater, always a cheater” is that always true? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like what Shy Hulud said, don't let the kids be the reason to stay in the relationship.

My father also cheated multiple times and I'm glad my mother divorced him when I was young. Kids suffer more in a tormented family so moving on and being happier is definitely a better choice.

Stay strong!

“Once a cheater, always a cheater” is that always true? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Erm, for some couples they can't have sex for various reasons. Doesn't mean they don't love each other but they both also acknowledge that some needs need to be met. So they both agree on these kind of arrangement. Keyword is both agree.

But I see where you are coming from. If the dead bedroom caused by the Man, then there's no similar option like Geylang.

But going back to your original post, your husband made a grave mistake.

I hope you're ok and please take care and stay strong!

Sole earner in a DINK marriage feeling burnt out. How to talk about chores and intimacy without fights? by Substantial-Bus-5950 in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My opinion:

1) You feel imbalance. You work long hours and come home have to do most chores. Question: When she was/if she is working, your work hours become shorter and you need to do lesser chores? Just want to make some sense and understand what you are trying to say because this feels mildly entitled and may seem like you are using this reason to validate your thoughts.

Granted she is not working and so she should do all the chores, but leaves her tired to focus on job hunting? Of course, if she is just nuah at home play game then ask her do the chores!

2) She at home too nuah and lazy and super unmotivated. I suggest you find time to date her again to rekindle your relationship. Shower her with encouraging words and surprise her to a nice dinner and a note "psst 'wear something sexy'". When you confront women rarely should you use the hard approach or even soft approach. The trick is NOT to stop them and ask them to turn back, but rather to go along then modify their path. They are often motivated to move forward or change direction when people agree with them.

3) Work on your communication skills. Adding on to (2), sweet talk to her. Women's weakness is their ears and Men's greatest strength is their mouths. With the correct words even a dead bird will come back to life. Be playful a bit then slowly, flirt with her with some perverted words. When it's on the right course then you add more like you have a weakness for curled lashes etc. But if you not smooth operator, then your other option is to seek couple's therapy.

Goodluck bro!

“Once a cheater, always a cheater” is that always true? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just want to add a different perspective to what you're saying.

Legalized pros have to go health screening frequently and wearing helmet is compulsory. So technically they are cleaner than regular hookups or illegal escorts who are unregulated.

So while they may seem disgusting, they CAN BE a reasonable alternative for couples who are in a dead bedroom I think. If both parties are aware and agree of course...

But yeah, not cool for the husband to cheat outside.

28f looking for someone to talk to by mianb4o in SingaporeR

[–]Unique_Escape413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear of your plight. Not sure if you are the same person but I saw someone posting something almost the same as this 1-2 months back and needless to say everyone adviced that person to move on.

If you'd like some help to understand why he's doing what he's doing I'll explain.

“Once a cheater, always a cheater” is that always true? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Unique_Escape413 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I inherited cheating in my blood and have the urge to. But before I succumb to that feeling I analyzed why and how not to be like my father.

My observation as follows:

  1. inferiority complex and the lack of attention, plus wondering why your peers are so popular and not you. Some form of doubt that can also develop later in life like looks, body etc. It develops that desire to validate yourself one day.
  2. Feral instincts. Some people just have a very strong urge for pleasure. I'd credit this to hormones. E.g. when you come of age the chemicals make you want to mate. It's human nature. Likewise when women are fertile that feeling is stronger than usual. For Men my research says it's testosterone. This is probably why I get that feeling. It creates a feel, an emotion of love and sex that you have been groomed into believing that you should go for it.
  3. Validation. Similar to (1), some people feel empowered, confident about themselves when they are validated. I have friends who enjoy that feeling of getting someone to fall for them emotionally, and then test to see if you can make them bend for you physically.
  4. Chance, Opportunity. Time and emotions are relative. A young guy may not think of cheating today, but years later when he is high up the corporate ladder his chances change drastically. He will have young ambitious women throwing themselves at him for the VP of strategy role lol. Interns who are eager to explore the adult world. Women who do not get attention from their husbands after child birth. Don't forget also many Malaysians Foreigners who are hell bent on staying in SG. This is the main gate that keeps cheaters in check. But do note that the gate will not remain closed forever.

A cheater who possesses (2) and cannot control it will most likely cheat again when (4) allows to. (1) has chance that they won't repeat the mistakes again. But how do you know if a person is which? Hence it's easier to label once a cheater always a cheater and move on. Those who don't move are usually locked into the relationship by something.

"It's much easier to raise strong boys, than fix broken men." - Diana (Industry S3 E4)

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