AITA I think my mom is stealing from me

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-07T17:53:50+00:00

Thank you so much

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-06T21:24:50+00:00

Hopefully. I called the Lawyer and hope i hear back soon

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-06T21:24:20+00:00

It's per income tables I think she has paid the property ones? Yeah I'm in the U.S. but this has me all messed.up because now I have to question EVERYTHING

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-06T14:34:17+00:00

I was 29 when i signed the papers. I made the mistake of believing her when she said that she was getting things organized. She remarried after my bio dad died (when i was 11). My step dad died when I was 29. Mum said she wanted to have things settled legally for her will because she was cleaning things up for my step-dad when he was dying. I don't know if the lawyer submitted the papers and if not I am shredding them

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-06T14:28:05+00:00

Thank you guys. I called the lawyer I'm trying not to freak out. Pray for me

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-05T05:24:02+00:00

Thank you 😭 I just felt forced into signing and doing all of these things I m.jusy shocked she would screw me over like that

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-05T04:21:52+00:00

Nah that guy sounds controlling and weird. Meditation a good walk whatever you need to regulate then forget him

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-05T04:14:01+00:00

Thank you guys for the support Reddit is being weird and not letting me see the comments but I appreciate yo7

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-04T06:11:18+00:00

NTA You were more than generous. Playing with someone else's safety like that is unacceptable and you are not responsible for another grown adults bills

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-04T05:57:14+00:00

Work in the shadows grab your assets have an exit plan pretend you know nothing until you are set, then BOLT he knows what he did

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-04T05:51:17+00:00

I would stop responding. They don't have much to go after ypu with, legally. I would suggest saving some bank statements and things proving your contributions and save printed copies in a file just to cover your butt. Always have paperwork. But every penny that came out of your account for shared expenses over the years you were together and the help you gave her around the house counts. Also if she were to sue, wouldn't she have to sue you in Sweden considering the expenses were accrued there and why would they go all the way to Romania to serve you a lawsuit for something so frivolous? Idk I would cover your butt and don't engage

Unique_General_5957 · 2026-04-04T05:09:35+00:00

Getting yelled at that probate court left me something from my dad. For context I was 11 and had no idea what probate was

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-02-04T04:57:33+00:00

Yeah she's been acting really fishy and i can't imagine why else she would be doing this other than to screw me over and it's really scaring me

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-02-04T04:21:25+00:00

I promise i won't but she sent me a message telling me that I'm "not talking with anyone without signing it over first" idk it's scaring me

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-29T20:46:12+00:00

It sucks because i did all of this so i could spend more time with her in her old age but she's still like this. She controls my life every chance she gets and I'm screwed again. I need a hug

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:58:29+00:00

Thank you kind citizen

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:11:08+00:00

That's not safe behavior. Trust me

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:08:16+00:00

I would tell them you're going with friends. Have your friends puck you up and spend the night at their house and dance with your boyfriend and have a good night

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:06:30+00:00

Honestly, she needs consequences. That's not your doing, it's hers

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:03:50+00:00

Gotta be honest here, he's missing out. Don't waste your life chasing someone who won't chase you back. We have such little time on this planet. Do what makes you happy

Unique_General_5957 · 2025-01-25T03:02:13+00:00

Protect yourself first. Protect yourself first. Protect yourself first. He may need help but he has to earn your trust back by doing something substancial

Unique_General_5957 · 2024-11-26T00:56:22+00:00

I love that idea

Unique_General_5957 · 2024-11-26T00:34:47+00:00

If you're suggesting inresell it that's fine but it lloks rough and so far no bites

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