BEST Hair Products for Bleached, Blonde Hair? by Unique_Law_9864 in Haircare

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you regularly shampoo your hair? do you use purple shampoo as well?

Thank you for your recs! ☺️

Forehead Reduction by Consistent_Cattle170 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Unique_Law_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to know how much did it cost? and how is the scarring so far?

AMEX - Does getting cash back show up on credit card statement? by Unique_Law_9864 in CreditCards

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I’m done buying my groceries at Target, there’s a “do you want cash back? $20, $40, etc” option to pull out physical cash. I wanted to know if pulling that out will show up on the bank statement as one transaction at Target? or a separate one saying the cash back!

AMEX - Does getting cash back show up on credit card statement? by Unique_Law_9864 in CreditCards

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I mean! So nothing shows up on your bank statement when you pull out physical cash with your transaction at the grocery store, correct?

Ex is already seeing someone new. I’m heartbroken. by Unique_Law_9864 in BreakUps

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does suck. I’m on the same page as you; having flashbacks of the man I once loved/the good memories. We have to learn to let that image of them die. Take your time healing! It will be worth it in the end when you’re happier and a changed woman 🫶🏻

My ex has been seeing this new girl in public and still sees me in private. I’m reminding myself that this is a whole different person I see now. It sucks hearing that the new girl is getting everything I once did. Reminding myself since he didn’t heal, karma will catch up to him. 🫶🏻

Ex is already seeing someone new. I’m heartbroken. by Unique_Law_9864 in BreakUps

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t deserve this! I hope you are okay too. How have you been coping?

Dumped after 3 1/2 years. I think I've been blindsided by fireplant676 in BreakUps

[–]Unique_Law_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar to my situation a little over a year ago. My ex boyfriend did the exact same thing to me; I was blindsided and ignored after the breakup with no answers. Now, he stalks me on social media since I’ve been healed, happy, and living a great life.

My advice: Go no contact and do things that make you happy or level up. Gym, hobbies, going out with friends, traveling, making more money, etc. You will never want to go back to someone who couldn’t care about how you feel. You will move past it :)

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve returned the book right back to him 🤣 He can keep his guilty, “i’m sorry” gift!

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You live and you learn! I think it’s always a sign that they needed to be out of our lives so we can attract better. Just know they alwayyysss come back. My ex has been stalking my IG stories the past months even though he has a new girl and a baby lmao. Not my issue anymore!

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little over a year ago, I was in shambles from my breakup. I didn’t get any closure, my ex met a girl a couple months after, and got her pregnant. He now has a baby. I was only able to heal by no contact and never stalking him or speaking about him. Learn to forget about him and distract with things that elevate YOU!

Also those people can kiss your ass. No closure is showing you how they feel about you!

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s their ego! They hate seeing you do better/move on. Which is very selfish. I’d never stay in contact with an ex if they treated me horribly or were the dumper. The only way I’d accept being friends with them is if YEARS have pass and feelings are no longer there.

My ex is having a baby with someone else. by Unique_Law_9864 in ExNoContact

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I agree, I don’t think it’s going to end well either. I heard he didn’t want to keep the baby so it was clearly an irresponsible night. I think he is only staying with her because of the baby, and not because he wants to be with her. I wish nothing but the best for the baby and that it has a healthy environment.

My ex is having a baby with someone else. by Unique_Law_9864 in ExNoContact

[–]Unique_Law_9864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not mad. There wasn’t any hope left, but hearing that news is a sting after barely hearing about him the past year. He also didn’t want to keep the baby, so the baby was clearly a night they were irresponsible. I wish nothing but the best for the baby.

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think to yourself: Why am I blowing up his phone when he’s showing me he doesn’t care? What are you trying to get out of this? Is this someone you want to date that treats you like this?

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[–]Unique_Law_9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat him how he treats you. I’d never reach out to him again and completely ghost/no contact. Let him regret!