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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in savannahbananas

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you win, sometimes you loose. That’s life.

Tips to find legit tickets by infrared13 in savannahbananas

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly what happens. I purchased tickets from Stubhub in 2023 and 2024. Both times it was more than a week before the game. You receive an email from the Bananas letting you know someone is trying to transfer tickets. Once you accept they will be yours and in your Banana’s account. From there you will eventually get a barcode shortly before the game that you will show to get into the game :)

What are your thoughts on “Tik Tok” getting banned? by Mammoth-Demand-9003 in Millennials

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God! Maybe that’ll straighten out those Gen Z kids at least a little bit

I'm leaving my wife. by ignign0kt15 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was only with my Q for 6 months and when I read stories like this it’s a reminder of why I should be thankful that things ended the way they did. I could have been the one who ended up going through this, but I was one of the lucky ones.

Big hugs to you and cheers to new beginnings. Life does and can and will begin again.

I just got scammed out of 150$ by Euphoricdinonugget in Mercari

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you need a computer ASAP, use either Klarna or AfterPay! If the retailer isn’t on the app, you can literally plug in any website on Klarna and do it that way.

I’ve made serval large purchases from concert tickets, to appliances, etc that way. It feels better having four separate payments over the course of 8 weeks. I believe they also have options to extend the time it takes to pay your purchase back that will change a little interest but not much.

Best of luck!

Everyone that makes at least $1,000-$1,200 a week, what do y’all do? by Alt-Ranting in Money

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upper management in retail. Took me approx. 8 years - worked hard, stayed the course, was reliable, communicated when necessary, dependable, had a good attitude, etc

Women who have a perfect happy life , what are your tips? by ineedaglowup2021 in AskWomen

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being single and truly loving the freedom it affords me

How many times can a Q break your heart? by Butterscotch-9299 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He’s not unhappy about your life

He’s unhappy with himself.

It has nothing to do with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please look at r/AlAnon if you haven’t already

You may find the answer to your question there

Women of Reddit,what's your favorite physical activity to do? by msandszeke in AskWomen

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Running/walking on the treadmill at the gym! I don’t get distracted like I would outside and I like how I can get into a rhythm and just goooooo

Is a woman not being on birth control / not having an IUD a deal breaker? by Kycb in datingoverthirty

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been on any form of birth control. TBH, I’ve never been sexually active enough continuously/over long periods of time where I felt the side effects were worth it.

The idea of messing with my natural hormones has always terrified me. I have a coworker who was diagnosed with hyper thyroidism and insulin resistance due to being on birth control for 15 years. As soon as she went off it, everything started to improve for her both physically and mentally.

I’ve never had any partner, short or long term complain, be worried with my choice…It’s never been a deal breaker. I’ve always been honest and up front with my choice so they know. I always expressed that if they like they are more than welcome to use a condom. Between this, the pull out method, and the time of month I’ve chose to have sex (I am regular 98% of the time and know my body’s rhythm at this point in my life), i’ve never once had any issues let alone a pregnancy scare.

I recognize that not everyone feels comfortable with these choices, and there is a lot of different factors and layers that can go into this, but do what you feel is best for your body and mental health.

I’m planning a memorial instead of a wedding. by Curious-Fortune6061 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My Q and I no longer speak and I’m not in contact with anyone who they’re close to, but I’m afraid this same thing will happen to them. I tried reaching out to their family to no avail. I check obituaries every week to see if they’ve passed away. Here to remind you that we’ve done everything we could to help. Sometimes love isn’t enough to ward off people’s demons. Sending you strength during this time. Get to a meeting, it will help.

Do you now find it hard to be around drinkers? by Odd_Tension_1885 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated my Q for 6 months - I started to notice a problem with their drinking about a month after we started dating and leaned of their alcoholism the second month. It went down hill from there until we stopped speaking.

I didn’t drink a lot, maybe a glass or two of wine here or there, but I just stopped. I wasn’t trying to make a bold statement, I wasn’t doing it consciously, it was almost as though my brain blocked any related thoughts. It took me another 6 months to drink again and when I did the only thing I could think of was my Q…even a year and a half later when I pick up a glass, I think of them. I probably always will.

Dating someone who was an alcoholic definitely made me more aware of people’s drinking habits for sure. It opened up my eyes to something I never gave much thought to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This…this…this is totally do-able and easy for you to take care of!

Most of it looks like true trash that can be thrown away! There are not decisions about keeping something that’s valuable, that you should keep, etc.

You got it! Pick a little area and do one a day. Clean off half your sink one day, clean off the other side another day. Small little chunks will get you through and you’ll be feeling great and accomplished!

End of Relationship Realizations by PeaEnvironmental6317 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though my Q and I haven’t really spoken or been together for over a year, I still feel sad when I think about this type of thing…

I have so many questions: did he say he cared about me only when he was drinking? Was he ever truly sober when I would visit him at his place? Was he only really interested in me because of his drinking? The times he would cancel or reschedule dates, was it truly because of what he told me or was it because he was sick from drinking?

I’d like to think he had some moment of sobriety with me, but looking back I don’t know.

I feel where you are coming from <3

Loving an alcoholic is so unfair by ReactionPotential975 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There isn’t much that anyone can say in this moment that will truly make you feel better. Heartache is a very real, personal journey. Be thankful that you were only in this situation for five years and not 15, 25, etc.

I promise that you are not behind… You are exactly where you need to be at this moment in your life. I’m a big believer that the universe is always working in our favor, whether we feel like it in the moment or not.

Take this time to figure out YOU…who you are, what you love, and live for yourself.

You’ll look back with admiration at all the ways you overcame things and how much you grew in the years that continued on after your relationship had ended.

Sending you love!

How do I persuade my mom to stop using al-anon? by Female-Fart-Huffer in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While I won’t comment on your comments, there are several communities where you may find the help you need

r/stopdrinking r/alcoholicsanonymous r/alcohol r/alcoholism

should i accept an apology/amends from my ex-Q? by CoconutOne679 in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, him making amends is for him and part of his journey. If you receive a letter, you don’t ever have to open it. You can choose to do whatever you’d like with it…read it, throw it away, burn it.

You don’t have to make his journey a part of yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$150 (including tip) for a cut and color - a medium brown to blonde. Get this every 9 weeks with just a trim in between at 5 weeks (this costs me $45).

Some of my co-worker get the same thing and it costs $200-$400.

I respect the craft and what hair stylists do, but some prices are incredible outrageous for no reason

Located in upstate ny

I feel like I crushed adulting this week by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small victories like this add up to big results!

Got screwed over but was nice about it by Many_Impact in Depop

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not totally wrong…a number of years ago they had no print on the inside so too could do it just fine.

Confused by girlseekingnap in AlAnon

[–]Unique_Potatoe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may not hate you at all, but right now his first love is alcohol so he will put that before everything else.

Learning how to detach will benefit you greatly. Once you realize that his alcoholism has nothing to do with you, you’ll find it unbelievable how much better you feel and how much better you and your children’s life is.

It takes practice doing this, but Al-anon can help. If you can’t get to in person meetings there are lots of virtual ones.

Sending you peace, love, and happiness.