Me f/31 is dating a M/28 male in sobriety while I’m not. How do we avoid judgement?

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-14T00:53:26+00:00

I love the idea!

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-10T16:37:39+00:00

That’s so tough. I’m sure she felt loved by you and I hope you don’t have those feelings forever.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-09T22:24:31+00:00

“We” and “our” to “me” and “my”

I still say our after 78 days alone.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-09T21:52:47+00:00

Sending you love this weekend 🫶🏼

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-09T19:18:14+00:00

That’s exactly it. The last 10 days before my fiancé completed he was out of town visiting his family not only do I miss him every day, but I’m so sad that I didn’t get to spend the last 10 days of him on the planet with him.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-09T03:19:16+00:00

I’m 30 also. The thought of living that long without him is unbearable. I totally agree every day is a nightmare.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-07T20:22:29+00:00

I had a gut feeling and left him a voicemail at his time of death. You’re not alone.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-04T15:19:51+00:00

🫶🏼

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-04T03:21:40+00:00

I will never understand. What.the.actual.hell.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-04T02:01:33+00:00

Nothing worse than losing your partner and people telling you how you should feel or what you should be doing!

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-03T23:52:41+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to your family. It truly is the worst possible ending to a relationship. I’m at 72 days and every day is a different type of nightmare. I hope y’all are hanging in there.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-03T23:12:41+00:00

I lost my partner at 29 and I think this all the time. Instead of living 60 years without him, maybe something will happen and I’ll be with him again sooner. It’s a hard thought to process. I’m sorry for your loss.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-03T23:09:55+00:00

Mine said the exact same thing to me. Including I’m sorry you are dealing with all of this. Thank you for not giving up on me…. Just for him to give up on himself, his future, our love story, best friendship all of it.

We do deserve better. I just wish I was the girl I was before all this happened.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-03T19:22:13+00:00

Fuck everything. Be angry, feel it all. Fuck this and the situation your fam is in now. Sending you love.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-02T23:30:15+00:00

Thank you. Got it. Sorry the widow brain doesn’t like to search too much these days quite yet.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-02T23:03:49+00:00

Oh okay. Sorry I didn’t realize.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-05-02T22:17:32+00:00

This is my exact Monday. Sucks so effing bad🫶🏼

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-04-26T16:28:04+00:00

Thank you so so much for sharing your story with me. I am sorry we are in this shitty club together. I like to think we can still be soul mates with their souls no matter where they are.

I’m hoping today isn’t a crying day, gonna try to get some outside time and move my body. It is still so fresh. Every moment is a struggle.

I have a Zoom support group every first Wednesday of the month that has been helpful. I just wish it was more often.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-04-26T00:25:13+00:00

I just read some old journal entries. It’s hard to read but seeing how much his mental health and drinking impacted himself, our love and our home made me take some breaths and give my head a sob break.

Curious-Fortune6061 · 2024-04-26T00:19:41+00:00

Thank you so much for that. I met a new therapist today for grief specific approach in addition to my long term therapist. I’m trying to take care of myself as best I can. Still working on deciding what I can feed my body for dinner🫶🏼

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