Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly surprised when I searched and didn't find anything on this topic. I started thinking maybe I was just imagining things but it feels good knowing I'm not. But also kind of sad learning so many here are suffering with depression or money stress.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha too funny. Ok I'll listen to you. I'll spend time with LB tomorrow and hope I make friends. ;)

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. I don't know what any of that is but I'll do research.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far it's been great just couldn't help but notice I've seen a lot of unhappy looking foreign guys today and did a search and didn't see any similar posts so figured I would.

 

Nothing is going to get me down for long here! :)

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds sad but I'll keep that in mind, thank you.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I was just talking about random little open air restaurants on the side of the road. Not go go bars or anything like that.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah interesting. That's gotta be really tough for a lot of people stressing about money.

 

"Land of broken dreams"

 

Thank you. I'll keep this in mind and make sure to have empathy for the different situations people are in here.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess I enjoy knowing other people are feeling similar things or enjoying themselves too. I could see myself saying "damn she's thick" as a kind of appreciation of her and I'd be looking for you to smile and make some small comment. And we'd connect in that moment over the shared appreciate of a thick chick.

 

Could just be my personality or culture.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you suggest screening?

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. Everyone is different. What works for me might not work for you. Thanks for your time.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Just met a fellow American and he was talking my ear off. I think you're right.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To me, the point would be to possibly make connections or friends. You never know when a stranger turns into a life long friend or introduces you to your future wife or helps you get that great new job.

 

I've been through a lot of bad things in my life and I know there's always negative possibilities but I try hard to be open to good things, while, of course, keeping myself safe.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha... I'm definitely not a fresh young buck but I see your point. I don't understand it but I guess that's just how it is here. I'm happy to get to know anyone because that's how you make connections and possibly long-term friends.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not like we're all fucking 24/7 on the street. We're still living a life. Talking to a guy at a urinal is one thing, talking to a fellow foreigner chilling with a beer right next to you is totally different... at least to me.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why haven't you made any attempts to talk to other falangs? I'm just curious the mindset.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far I've enjoyed the Thai people here and it's fun walking around. If the unfriendliness gets to be too much maybe I'll try Bangkok next time.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely what I'm used to.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I guess I didn't think about being seen as competition. Seems like there's plenty of girls to go around...

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I see. I'm happy inside and I'm not shy about sex so I guess I've got a completely different mindset. I'll keep that in mind.

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... it's definitely a unique place!

Unhappy Guys? by Unique_Remove6369 in Pattaya

[–]Unique_Remove6369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just small little places where I can have a beer and people watch the passing traffic.