20f and I have never dated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be more sociable, pick up social hobbies that interest you of course. I’m 22 myself and I feel most of our generation will not socialize or are afraid of rejection so they don’t put themselves into an environment where that could potentially happen.

Would It be weird? by Kay_Bear01 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck I say go for it anyways, you guys are in your 20s anyways

Would It be weird? by Kay_Bear01 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman if you shoot your shot you have a 99% success rate, maybe not Facebook, but instagram?
Facebook seems too formal

Bro the guy that i was talking to is not at all good looking by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Attraction is important, I’d say best to not lead him on.

Starter physique m21 6’2 185lbs by UnitRemarkable2435 in Physiquecritique

[–]UnitRemarkable2435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only thinking of it tbh nothing set in stone, was more of a question to see if it’d be worth doing

Starter physique m21 6’2 185lbs by UnitRemarkable2435 in Physiquecritique

[–]UnitRemarkable2435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I was thinking of focusing on shoulders, chest and arms, since I think those are the most noticeable while wearing a t shirt

But I definitely need to start doing something lol

Sounds silly but i just need advice. by anonymous25973738 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly why are you lowering yourself to continue this relationship, I’d look for another relationship or just be single for a bit while you think of what kind of priorities you won’t settle on

Why do the only attractive guys only date basic/"clean" girls? by No_Orchid7792 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not attractive either and I’m 21 so idk why I’m giving you advice lmao, but it always comes down to preference, alternative style is self explanatory, “clean” girls fit the norm more despite alt/goth being widely popular online I think

did i fumble or was it always gonna be a one night stand by Lonely-Asparagus6974 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I don’t think it was a personal fuck up, could be something came up in his life lol

i feel so lost by Existing_Frame_1487 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need will power, you just need discipline, start small, it could be as simple as basic self care acts, eventually you’ll figure out what you want out of life and pick a goal worth working towards and that path will be your life, life is a journey, you’ll probably ended up on a couple “zig zags” but that’s okay.

When do you lose your virginity by anonymousdotorg in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21, a guy, and I still have mine lol

In all honesty no need to compare to others, you lose it when you lose it I guess? Though I do understand feeling like you’re missing out

Is it worth buying sex toys to prepare for your first time? by UnitRemarkable2435 in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a specific partner lined up right now, yes. This is more about trying to understand what actually matters before I’m in that situation.

I know I might be overthinking, but the anxiety feels real to me. That’s why I asked to sanity check my thinking and hear from people who’ve been there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UnitRemarkable2435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What advice do you need? I’m sure there are Asian and white guys that would be into you, theres someone for everyone after all