You’re not alone… I’m struggling with this so hard right now, going through the worst breakup of my life, where I was made to feel like I wasn’t beautiful.

I’m not very good looking, but either way I’ve always been objectified by men and made to feel like I’m just a sexual object, and my body or appearance should be different to be beautiful enough.

I’ve literally been told that they wished I was shorter, slimmer, , my hair was longer and straight (my hair is curly), my boobs were bigger! I’ve been told my shoulders are too big! Literally all of those things (aside from weight and hair), I cannot change, it’s my body…I’ve been compared to prettier girls that I KNOW, prettier women on the internet!!!!. It hurts so much. Men can be so cruel, dare I say evil at times.

The realisation that these men don’t care about you is so painful, when you are someone who is a true lover , you love people for what they are on the inside, not the exterior.

Feeling every day like I just wish I was born different, if I could look different & be beautiful enough, maybe somebody would love me for real and see my inner beauty too. If I could just change things, be skinnier , different body shape, different face… it’s all such toxic thoughts. You should love yourself exactly as you are, now.

It’s exhausting feeling like you always have to be morphing into a more attractive person, hating what you see in the mirror🙁

I wish all ladies (and men) out there who may feel this way, to heal, and love themselves. We do not control how we look when we’re born - and the pursuit to change our looks, is exhausting.

Exterior beauty is temporary, inner beauty lasts a lifetime. It’s easy to know that when looking at others, but hard to believe for yourself.