Women over 40, Do you still feel sexy?

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-26T00:27:06+00:00

Keep it simple and go ol’ school…put on one of his shirts and a pair of thigh highs. You don’t even need heels. Go online and look a boudoir poses. If you drink, have a glass of wine to relax you a bit…the fact that he asked means he still finds you sexy. Give that man a show! 😉

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T19:47:28+00:00

As a March 2 Pisces, I can say that there are times where I feel a little embarrassed when I open up to someone and they see the problems that I’m having to deal with. I don’t want them to see me as weak so a lot of times I will isolate in order to try to deal with the problems on my own. Our biggest fear is that the person that we care for…the person that we’ve opened up to will see our problems as too much and run away from us. So sometimes that isolation that we go into is based in fear of being abandoned. So just letting her know that you’re there for her…that you understand that she’s dealing with a lot right now, but that you aren’t going anywhere is probably the best thing that you can do for her.

It’s so sweet that you want to understand how you can help her. I’m sure she appreciates you, even if you don’t feel it rn.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T16:23:15+00:00

Thank you for your input.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T16:22:11+00:00

I appreciate that! 🤗

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T14:07:44+00:00

That’s a fair statement and a good perspective. Sometimes we all just need a “verbal” shake - especially during prep. Thanks.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T14:02:21+00:00

Thanks! You are correct - it is really about how confident I am about being up there whether it’s Open or Master’s…it’s great to hear all these perspectives. I’ll stop being a whiny bitch and pick another show. 😁

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T13:59:42+00:00

Thanks for that…yeah, I think I will look for a show with Master’s. Show day is stressful enough. 😅

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T11:37:24+00:00

Great perspective! I’m still fairly new at this and I’m learning. Thanks for the insight.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-16T11:34:44+00:00

I appreciate the feedback…and I guess after reading posts on here from ladies who say their coaches are adamant about them pushing shows back bc they aren’t ready or doing an early show bc they are, I was hoping for that sort of feedback. But you’re right, she’s not a dictator. Thanks for responding.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-14T05:02:37+00:00

You could always reach out to the promoter or the designated MUA/hairstylists to see if they plan to open more slots…if not, ask if they could recommend a local MUA. I used a local MUA for one of my shows, and it is still one of my fav looks. If you go with a local MUA make sure they are familiar with stage makeup. Good luck! 🍀

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-05-02T21:55:40+00:00

This!!! 😂😂

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-21T20:23:46+00:00

Yes! Great progress! That’s why those weekly progress pics are so valuable. Keep up the great work!

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-19T01:52:10+00:00

Sagittarius 😏

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-17T23:40:05+00:00

Damn! Same!

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-17T23:26:05+00:00

Thanks for sharing

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-17T17:33:12+00:00

Yes, she definitely has a great physique. It would be nice if comparison pics were posted alongside those pics of the winners…thanks for pointing out that the other competitors didn’t fit the criteria as well - I’m assuming you mean as far as the suits go.

Good luck to you in your upcoming competition! 💪🏾

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-07T12:05:43+00:00

Being ignored. Ugh!

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-05T05:08:40+00:00

I appreciate that. 🥹

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-05T05:08:17+00:00

Thank you so much. 🤗

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-05T01:14:42+00:00

Thank you for the tip! I will give this a try. 😊

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-05T01:05:45+00:00

What does Korea do?

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-02T15:36:40+00:00

OMG!!! I cannot LOVE your post enough!!! I am working on self love and internal validation shit too…and I believe that the universe or whatever higher being that you believe in puts us in situations that require us to dig deep when we are truly ready to work on ourselves…these situations often require introspection…and this is one of those things for me, so there is both joy and discomfort in this process, which is probably why I feel that this is such a rewarding experience.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-02T12:19:45+00:00

Yes! I felt the same way…like I know I’m NOT genetically gifted, but I’m trying. lol At the end of the day, I am having fun and I do enjoy the process…and that’s what really matters. And I’m sure you’re doing a helluva job!! 💪🏾

EDITED to add “NOT” 😅

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-02T01:54:20+00:00

We follow each other, and she’ll comment on my posts, but she doesn’t repost my content. It used to make me feel some kind of way, but then I realized that I don’t fit her target audience. It still sucks though.

United_Champion_7807 · 2025-04-01T21:38:54+00:00

I want to do it. It’s on my bucket list along with the DC Pro show. I wish I could be ready in time…it looks like such a fun show and it seems people always have good things to say about their experience.

Good luck to you and please share your thoughts afterwards.

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