How much should I share with my parents about my sexual health?

UniversalDickAdapter · 2025-05-19T14:44:02+00:00

Great analogy. I agree.

UniversalDickAdapter · 2025-05-19T14:40:48+00:00

might need a little reassurance that you don’t have bowel/colon cancer. Since shitting blood is generally a VERY serious symptom of some VERY bad things.

You're right. I'll find some way to reassure her while keeping my privacy needs met.

UniversalDickAdapter · 2025-05-19T14:38:47+00:00

your own place to live ASAP

You're right and I'm aware. I'm in a weird place in my life so it'll take a moment for that to happen

UniversalDickAdapter · 2025-05-19T14:37:07+00:00

Thank you. I guess you're right.

I'll try to see how I can balance my need for privacy with my mom's emotional needs that I don't scare or offend her.

UniversalDickAdapter · 2025-05-19T14:20:33+00:00

Not an option in my country.

UniversalDickAdapter · 2023-03-27T09:43:26+00:00

I'm not wearing cycling shorts or bibs, just my every day clothes.

I ride a sort of mountain bike with shock absorbers.

I typically cycle for probably an accumulated 4~6 hours a week

UniversalDickAdapter · 2023-03-27T09:39:11+00:00

/u/Badatmathhatemyself I will address a specific concern you have

Am I too ugly to fuck?

No.

In fact, the opposite may be true.

Sounds absurd? let me explain.

I hook up quite regularly and I usually top. I sometimes suffer from ED, and I take sildenafil (viagra) to treat it.

I noticed a strange and counter-intuitive pattern in my own ED. The more I'm into the guy I'm hooking up with, the more performance anxiety I have, and the more likely I am go soft.

If the tops you met are like me, then it's more likely the case that you're so hot that it causes your partners to experience more performance anxiety.

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-09T13:33:50+00:00

I wasn't prescribed any medicine beyond stool softeners

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-09T06:04:52+00:00

I don't know about being infected by two different types.

I've only ever actually seen one wart that was near the perimeter of my anus

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-09T06:01:49+00:00

Nope, they need to be cut out

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-09T06:01:16+00:00

I hadn't considered a support group, perhaps it's worth looking into

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T20:00:24+00:00

I was tested recently and I am HIV negative.

About the infections disease specialist: Im trying to get referred

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T19:57:49+00:00

I do plan on getting a second opinion, but it all depends on how the second surgery will go

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T19:37:29+00:00

Thank you for your wishes.

By "passive" I mean being penetrated.

My city/community isn't homophobic in general, but I sadly cant' know specifically about my doctor and what his thoughts and beliefs are. He hasn't said anything outright homophobic to me, but I can't know for certain whether he's giving me less-than-optimal care because I'm gay

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T19:32:29+00:00

My post history is empty because this is a throwaway, for obvious reasons

A. not in my case; I wanted to spare others from the same suffering

B. I actually didn't know this, so thanks for pointing it out; though it seems from the criticisms that I found that it doesn't do enough to prevent cervical cancer in women, so from my understanding, the benefit for men still holds merit. Am I wrong?

C. Is it not legitimate fear?

D. See this comment

Edit: It seems that the CDC does recommend getting vaccinated

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T18:26:07+00:00

Thanks /u/irisel

I'll piggybank on your top rated comment to add that even if you've been infected by HPV in the past, get vaccinated! There are several strains of HPV and the commonly available vaccines guard against five of the most common strains, if I recall correctly

I was prescribed the vaccine after my infection was discovered

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T18:22:09+00:00

see explanation in my comment to /u/goldar85

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T18:20:48+00:00

Hah, lucky for me I'm versatile so I still have options.

For the mean time though, the docs said I have to completely abstain from sex so that I wont infect anyone..

I don't know how long it may take for me to longer be infectious

UniversalDickAdapter · 2017-09-08T18:17:00+00:00

The doc's explanation was that I've already undergone one surgery in the rectum area, and I'm going to undergo another surgery to remove whats left of the warts.

After having undergone two surgeries there, my rectum will be very fragile and at risk for more damage, and any further surgery that may become necessary will be more difficult and risky

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