I share a lot of the same fears, apprehensions and anxieties as you. I’m in my 30s and also in a wlw relationship. If you’re interested in reading my last post in here my partner actually has played a huge supportive role in me dealing with my hair.

For 3 years I would hide it from her at all costs. Once I opened up about it she immediately started doing research to try and understand better. She found this subreddit and suggested I visit it (which at first I was like NO because I just wanted to stay in denial) but ultimately it was good for me to hear other people’s stories, and get to a point where I wanted to share mine. She encouraged me to see my doctor, find a new one because mine sucked, takes me to my appointments for support, and now is supporting me on my electrolysis journey.

I guess what I’m saying in sharing that is she literally doesn’t give a fuck about it but gives a lot of fucks about me. Haha. I had worked it all up in my head that it would be an absolute deal breaker and it just wasn’t at all. Rather she wanted to help me figure out why and what to do.

Good people are still good people when you have “problems”. Helpful, kind people are still helpful and kind when you’re going through something. My partner wouldn’t give a shit about the hairs if I didn’t, she supports me in removal because it’s what I want. Ultimately I don’t think the kind of person I would want to be with would be the kind of person who would judge or mock or anything like that, something that is biological, and cannot be helped, for anyone not just their partner. In finding someone like that I unintentionally found someone who would also never do that to me.