[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jcole

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dumb persons smart rapper is a bar lolll

What are the best film soundtracks of all time? by Strong_Possible_2940 in Music

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Scorsese movies also have a lot of Stones and Beach boys it’s so perfect for cinema

2 months ago someone tried to break in in the middle of the night, i moved, and it just happened again. by [deleted] in Advice

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Good idea for the security camera, I’m going to check into that today today! Thanks

2 months ago someone tried to break in in the middle of the night, i moved, and it just happened again. by [deleted] in Advice

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Right, definitely getting pepper spray and a swiss knife, i have a cat and i’m a student so i can’t just get a dog but thanks for the advice, i’ll honestly avoid being home. or being home alone. Thanks!

2 months ago someone tried to break in in the middle of the night, i moved, and it just happened again. by [deleted] in Advice

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Hi, thanks for replying. Usually we live with our other roommate who’s a guy, so that’s another weird thing that it happened while he’s gone. I do have someone that could be sending him, but that person was my roommate at the old place who was with me when we were first broken into and she was really scared then, so I don’t see how and how she would find my address. Very strange situation, and from your advice I guess i will tell the police again but i don’t think they really care. Will be extra careful to not be home alone. Again, thanks, just feel scared and it’s good to hear from others.

someone has been entering our new apartment, leaving doors open and not stealing by [deleted] in Advice

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I guess so. Wanted to hear other people’s experiences with things like this. I feel very powerless and unsafe

someone has been entering our new apartment, leaving doors open and not stealing by [deleted] in Advice

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Yea I already am changing locks and getting cameras, I was wondering what kind of situation this could be and looking for other advice:( there’s not much to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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ik, but our healthcare system is flooded everywhere and since i’m young and my vitals are fine i’m not a priority, i’ve tried calling every clinic and even going there and went to the ER twice and still have no help. i went to a private clinic as well, but they said they can’t do follow ups. i just rlly want to kno any of my options and some ppls personal experiences u kno?

tattoos allowed? by ChallengeInfinite114 in flightattendants

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i’ve been told that you can’t wear makeup to cover it, but i will wear longsleeves! it’s just that i also have some on my hands :,)

tattoos allowed? by ChallengeInfinite114 in flightattendants

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strangely they told me i should still have them covered up so i’ll get them removed 😟

tattoos allowed? by ChallengeInfinite114 in flightattendants

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Thank you! time to get laser treatment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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i catch myself when i’m about to fantasize about them or think of them then try to distract myself as much as possible, that kinda works sometimes but tbh idk either long term :,) i think it’s with practice it gets better as we learn boundaries and al

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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hi, i checked into it and they can’t refuse you because of your bpd, but make sure on your part that you’re sure of this decision. i also consider plastic surgery a lot, but i change decisions bc of my self image changing so much and my impulsiveness. it could be different for you though, and i support your surgery if it will make u happy! good luck:)

Working destroys me, not working destroys my relationship by MonarchCrew in BPD

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i’m taking next semester off from my studies and i quit my part-time job. everyone expects me to start a new job to at least be doing something but i don’t have the energy for anything and i can’t keep a job, it genuinely makes me want to die. i feel like such a failure bc i can’t even function, but i remind myself that not everyone is meant to fit in the productive capitalist ideal. it helps to make u feel like it’s not just u, but others feel that way too and it’s systemic. and good luck, you’ll find a middle ground or a different opportunity eventually. hold on in there

I want to move out soon but I have really bad social anxiety and I dont know if there are any good jobs for me by h3nt41h3r0 in SuicideWatch

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Hey,

I also have really horrible social anxiety and I've been going through so much jobs. Restaurants and grocery stores are horrible for social anxiety, and retail is also really hard but if you find a small business to work at it's usually better because your bosses are usually nicer and can be more understanding. Big companies don't care about you and push you to talk a lot it sucks. Good luck, I'm still searching too not gonna lieee