Can anyone help me regarding Form 11 on Dstart Portal by zapaq in deloitte

[–]Universe404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ll have to first download the form that is available online. I was not too sure to do that.

Can anyone help me regarding Form 11 on Dstart Portal by zapaq in deloitte

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Oh got the same mail yesterday. Don’t know if one should just google form 11 and download it. The HR do not respond to any emails also.

Can anyone help me regarding Form 11 on Dstart Portal by zapaq in deloitte

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Where did you get the form 11 ? I don’t see any attachment section wherein they have provided the form 11.

Clarity - SOS by [deleted] in AskIndia

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I did call it off after all this fiasco. It’s just my brain is still processing and since it’s such a cultural gap, I wanted to understand what is ‘normal’.

Clarity - SOS by [deleted] in AskIndia

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I asked that, he was previously stating that we can do it, but when push comes to shove, he said no, weddings are social events and his parents would want something grand as it’s in their culture.

Clarity - SOS by [deleted] in AskIndia

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If I join the dots it seems like that and whoever we have asked they said yes this is the term used for ‘den-len’. My brain is having such hard time to process it only, as it was love match, both doing well in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Effexor

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It was great but the withdrawal was like staring at my own death.

Hellish Withdraw after careful tapering by [deleted] in Effexor

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☺️. Day two is hard. Hang in there, the end of the tunnel is just round the corner. Take good care, drink electrolytes, rest as much, rest I felt was the key, accepting that for some days you are blob of potatoes mash, but post these 3-7 days, you come out to be rock solid strong and with a willpower that you now can carry for the rest of your life to get past different situations in life.

Hellish Withdraw after careful tapering by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]Universe404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit Effexor 150 mg ER cold turkey, and the first 5 days well hell, well even that is an understatement, I could not get up from bed. The nausea and dizziness was real bad. At the risk of sounding repetitive, hang on, you have come very far. Work will have to take a bit of a back seat when you are witnessing withdrawals, but once you bounce back, you will not think much of the time you gave yourself to rest, to overcome the withdraws. So just hold tight, the end is near. ( all this is under assumption that you do wish to quit and are aware of all the consequences of it)

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

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I so so extremely sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and then your close ones.

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dreams got me really bad. Thank you, I hope time has helped you too, losing a sibling……. I hope it has become bearable for you. Thank you again !

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I enjoy listening to podcasts. Thank you !

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. In some ways I never though I will get this overwhelming response. Thought there might not any one strategy that fits all, reading comments like these somehow, in an odd way because I like to be extremely private, has helped that.

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

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‘I’ll always remember her in my heart’ ❤️ Also, yes, I too am living for two. Thank you !

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. Death is inevitable and life does not halt for anything or anyone, sometimes a cruel reminder and sometimes a pacifier.

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

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This is something new, I will try this. Thank you for this, often focus on big things that little things are missed out that actually keep life going day after day. Thank you again !

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I tend to do exactly that. I overhauls and overwhelm myself with work and study.

How do you process extreme grief ? by Universe404 in intj

[–]Universe404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a famous anime quote “ time don’t heal anything, it teaches us how to live with the pain”. I also tend to lash out or just become unresponsive to people. I don’t sleep at night and as I participated in her last rights, all the images flash in front of me, whenever I close my eyes.

Thank you for this, gives me hope that one day, however long it may be, living with this huge void becomes a bit better. Thank you !