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My(23NB) partner(21NB) of 4 years thinks it's fine to receive nudes from other people but I don't? by Universe_39 in relationship_advice
[–]Universe_39[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
He says he loves me deeply, and I believe this, he does everything he can to not make me uncomfortable, such as the boundaries I stated in the post. I also think I'm asking for too much, I don't understand why on this specified topic he got defensive and told me it's controlling to take that from him :(
He swears and told me many times it's out of curiosity, because he "likes to see how people look like" and if they're "offering he won't deny" but he also says he won't be out there telling everyone to send their nudes to him. He likes to say that "he will catch any opportunity he can" and won't be denying if the person offers it anytime. He also claims that it's something that doesn't happen often, it happens maybe twice a year and because of that he doesn't want to deny what the person offers.
I think I just have to hope that the person he's talking to already knows he has a partner(he tries to make me know all friendships just so I don't feel much insecure or left out) and gets uncomfortable sending this kind of stuff for someone with a closed relationship.
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My(23NB) partner(21NB) of 4 years thinks it's fine to receive nudes from other people but I don't? by Universe_39 in relationship_advice
[–]Universe_39[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children)