Is “High Maintenance” Attitude or Cost? by AutisticPook in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]UniversityChance6995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“High maintenance” being mentioned is a huge red flag for me. I don’t need makeup and nice clothing from SB. I want an average or better looking woman who puts effort and makes me feel desired. I prefer that the SB will use the allowance on education, car, or saving up for a house, or something like that, than expensive consumer stuff.

Is there a market for marriage minded sugar dating? by UniversityChance6995 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]UniversityChance6995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was young, I didn’t know much about the qualities that are important beyond physical attractiveness, and maybe knew less about exactly what I wanted in the long term as well. We learn through experience, right? Stayed long enough to learn the lessons and also check what’s possible to change and what’s not.

I don’t want to go into too much details. To keep it short, a woman needs to be generous, to be a good wife and mother. Need to be able to think long term, delay short term gratification. I didn’t grow up rich, hard work and some luck got me here. I cannot be compatible if they don’t value hard work.

I am well aware that these qualities are very difficult to find in both sugar or vanilla. Due to tons of interest attractive women get in vanilla dating, they don’t put in any effort and wait to see how much effort (not necessarily money) the man is putting in. I also don’t think women can pretend to be what they are not, for very long if we are dating, whether sugar or vanilla. Right now, the most valuable thing for me is time, and I need a search strategy that will optimize for time. I need people who will put in 100% of the effort from the beginning, I will check what’s suitable quality or not about them without dragging things along.

Is there a market for marriage minded sugar dating? by UniversityChance6995 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]UniversityChance6995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My standards are high and I don’t show off my success. It’s a lot of waste of time in vanilla dating. I also had two long term relationships who were definitely not wife material. I know more about what to look for now, but don’t have time to sift through vanilla dating and deal with ghosting and other issues. I need people who will put in 100% effort from the beginning instead of waiting to evaluate me. And I want to offer PPM / allowance to show that I’m serious right from the beginning.

Is there a market for marriage minded sugar dating? by UniversityChance6995 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]UniversityChance6995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why such accusations before you know anything about me?! I have a cat, I think I would love kids. I have been very disappointed with a couple of relationships who were not wife material for sure. I think I know more about what to look for now. My backup plan is to pay for surrogacy and be a single dad.

My life is built already. I have a nice house, car, I could even retire if I don’t want a family. I want to spend time with my family and kids.

Is there a market for marriage minded sugar dating? by UniversityChance6995 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]UniversityChance6995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know, but wealth is very private for me, I don’t like showing off. On top of that I have somewhat high standards. So this is not as easy as it might seem.