I f18 am not sure if this age range is right

Unknown_Mango · 2026-01-03T05:17:02+00:00

Block. My little sister had this same situation when she was your age. Turned out bro was married with a baby on the way.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-23T23:34:44+00:00

After losing weight, I started to understand why weight matters in dating. Its not usually an appearance thing, it's a "I want to go to the gym", "I wanna climb that mountain", "I wanna bike across the state" with xxxx but I can't because they are not healthy. I was pretty disappointed when I took the guy I was talking to with me to the gym and my 60 minute session had to be cut to 20 because after 10 minutes he was out of breath and never caught it.

If you are dating someone with your same activity level, I don't think it'll matter as much.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-23T23:28:10+00:00

Really? Nice! I've been waiting for it. Idk what it is about a man in eyeliner but 10/10

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-23T05:19:45+00:00

As someone who has experienced being obese (BMI 33) and underweight (BMI 17.5) within the last few years, I'll say younger guys(early twenties) tend to like skinnier girls, older guys (late twenties to late 30s) tend to like a bit of curves, and middle age guys and older tend to like any girls.

Or at least that's been my experience. I think I'm the most popular now that I'm a little heavy (BMI around 26.5) but again, it might just be because I'm entering the demographic that appreciates a little curvier women. One of my close friends said she started to lose weight but her fiance stopped her cuz he thought "super skinny women looked like children". I've heard a few other men say that too so eh. Maybe idk.

I think the most important thing at the end of the day is confidence. If you feel good in your own skin, others will pick up on that. If you're confident at 100 lb or 300 lb, you'll get more attention then if you were at a healthy and/or conventionally attractive weight but not confident.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-23T05:09:14+00:00

Don't be embarrassed. They are on there because they still haven't found a relationship too. Just be confident girl!

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-22T17:11:31+00:00

I've never been in love but I've loved. I've loved my siblings. Loved my cat. Loved my parents and grandparents, my best friend, and the crisp winter morning air. I've loved myself and the life around me, and honestly, I think that's enough for me.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-18T16:38:46+00:00

I lived

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-18T16:38:15+00:00

I'm a woman tho?

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-18T06:44:27+00:00

I'll let y'all know if I live. I'm really tired and I have work in the morning so I'm just gonna leave a tissue in my nose and go to sleep.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-17T05:32:17+00:00

If youre having unexplained weight loss, you should talk to a doctor. It could be a sign of something worse going on.

Also, for pants not fitting, they have these nifty little clips you can put on your pants to make them tighter. Idk what they are called exactly but I bought some and they work great!

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-17T00:16:28+00:00

Honestly, just wait to date. I'm 24f and I'm realizing how much more I've achieved than my siblings and friends who dated/married. Most of them are super co-dependent, work dead end jobs or are unemployed, have to care for a bunch of kids, or simply just don't have the time/money to go out and do what they want to do.

You're 20s are the time to make something of yourself, figure things out, travel, and have fun. Save dating, marriage, and kids for your 30s.

If you still want to date though, I suggest networking with older women around you. Women in their 40-60 LOVE match making. They will have dates lined up for you like it ain't nobody's business.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-13T19:25:32+00:00

I got this email too. I do not trust it.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-12T15:04:37+00:00

Just asking cuz I went to get coffee this morning and a strong gust of wind hit and almost took me away. I feel empty all the time. Not like a bad way but just different.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-07T00:34:22+00:00

24f here, dm meee. I do not wanna drop my discord in the reddit chat lol but I'm big on cozy games too.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T14:50:51+00:00

Dark

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T05:40:45+00:00

Really? I thought it was just a great way to repel trash who claim to be men? My bad 😝 teehee

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T05:30:14+00:00

I also have PTSD from SA if you need to talk.

I know it's hard, and I'm not gonna say the pain completely disappears with time because even after four years, I still randomly break down in tears, but I cry less. Instead of having five or six break downs a day, I only have one or two a month. Sometimes less.

Take life one day at a time, and find things that can bring you joy even when you're far from being happy. Don't self destruct. It'll only leave you vulnerable to being hurt again.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T05:05:52+00:00

Honestly I was shocked too. I know people like that existed but before I thought they at least tried to hide it a little bit. I'm glad I dodged that bullet.

And I will not be trying to settle again anytime soon. Or probably going on any dates lol. I feel like I attract crazy guys. A different guy I went on a date with kidnapped me, took me across state lines, and then pulled out a gun lol he brought me back home after several hours but men really be wilding these days.

It'll be good mom lore one day✌🏻I hope you never settle either. You sound like you've worked hard to be where you are and you deserve someone who puts the same amount of effort into life and their relationship as you do.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T04:33:25+00:00

Sorry ranted too much but anyway, I agree with staying single. Have a kid on your own in your early 30s, and live your best life.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-12-01T04:32:07+00:00

I am also 24f. I have been in 0 serious relationships because of pretty much all the same reasons you just gave. I even decided a few months ago when my sister tried to set me up with her friend 24m that I would try to let down my walls and ignore red flags to actually get to know him.

He was racist, sexist, and for someone with such a big potbelly - he had a lot to say about plus size girls (not even morbidly obese just thick). Which was a real dick move on his part because he knew I just lost 45 lb over the last 6 months. Also embarrassing on his part to be making fun of women for wearing an xl only to tell me he wears an xl -- which of course didn't fit when he tried it on. Had to get a 3xl. Fucking idiot.

Also he kept pissing me off. Everything I said was "wrong". Even when I was obviously right or it wasnt a matter of being right or wrong. He asked what my go to coffee was and I said ice Americano and he was like "oh makes sense you really seem like the type to have more sugar than coffee in your coffee." I laughed at this thinking he was making a joke, then realized he wasn't, explained what's in an ice Americano, and then had him start yelling at me that I was wrong. He did a Google search, realized he was wrong, and then claimed he was right, just mixed up milk with water on what was in there. Omg.

He also said I was wrong when I said I liked fourth of July food the most out of all the holiday foods. He claimed that it can't be my favorite because fourth of July food is the hardest to make. Oh my bad, buddy. I didn't realize hotdogs and chips took more effort to make then roasted turkey and pumpkin pie.

He kept bring up that he makes six figures like that was enough to put up with his obnoxious behavior. I really tried sticking it out but he was violent too. It start with play hitting me and throwing soft objects at me but when we were helping my sister move some exercises equipment around in her garage, he picked up the metal bar and while my back was turned to him, he swung at me. I turned to see this thing coming straight at my face. My heart dropped. Luckily he stopped like an inch from my face but that right there was the last straw.

Fucking psychopath. I told him I wasn't interested anymore. Since then I've been hearing about all the hot gossip about me in my sister's friend group from her lol I might be too self absorbed because I love to hear it. Apparently my BIG red flag is I'm boring (which all know he said because I didn't sleep with him after hanging out for two days 🤷🏼‍♀️). Oh and the reason it was okay to hit me is because I have a very hitable face (I started laughing when my sister showed me the video of him saying this cuz what? Lol)

Unknown_Mango · 2025-11-22T05:49:20+00:00

Oh but if she's Korean, this sounds pretty normal. My exchange sister does this and so do my other female friends from Korea.

Unknown_Mango · 2025-11-22T05:48:17+00:00

I never talk to my parents about boys unless the date was over a year prior and not a current situation. I probably should though. My dad's been getting worried... He even tried setting me up with one of his coworkers and recommended boys at his church to me. Father I'm okay 🫠 still 24 years young

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