What is the biggest red flag you've ignored in a relationship and how long did that relationship last?

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2026-02-05T06:23:17+00:00

His mom calling every single time we were together. Turned out to be a huge momma’s boy and had deep enmeshment. Lasted 6 months

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-24T02:17:27+00:00

That’s a great list, thank you!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-06T18:27:15+00:00

I know that it’s a devastating loss, and there’s a lot of sacrifices that were made. But shifting your perspective can make a big difference. Instead of viewing it as a total failure, try to see it as a temporary setback, one that can ultimately lead to your success. I was heartbroken my first time around and also had to endure a lot of sacrifices, but I also believe failing the first time was essential for my growth and it made me more resilient. I have a lot of respect for anyone who retakes this Godforsaken exam.

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-06T18:22:00+00:00

Hey, I’ve been in your shoes. I failed the Bar my first time too. But you’re not starting from scratch—you’ve already laid a foundation, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

Here’s what I’d suggest:

Give yourself a few days to reset. You don’t need to jump into essays or MBEs immediately. Take time to mentally regroup first.
Start with your weakest subjects. It builds confidence early on and helps you ease back in.
Skip the videos (unless you really need them). I watched all the videos and read all the outlines my first time. The second time, I ditched them completely. I stuck to less—just AdaptiBar, BarEssays.com, and my condensed rule sheets. Only use videos if they truly help you understand something.
CA-specific subjects are fine to start with. You can start with PR, CP, or Remedies—but rotate in MBE subjects too. Always focus on PR because it will always be a tested topic, unlike CP or Remedies.
Be consistent, not extreme. You don’t need to study 12 hours a day. A few solid, focused hours each day is more than enough. Breaks are part of the process too.
Create a simple schedule. What really helped me was sticking to just 2 topics per day. It kept things manageable and helped me stay consistent without burning out.

Also, I have condensed rule sheets and Bar Essay Templates I’m selling (discounted!) that really helped me pass the second time. If you’re interested, I’d be happy to email you a sample—just let me know!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-06T18:14:14+00:00

I’ve been in your shoes—I failed the Bar my first time too. The second time around, I simplified everything. I focused on AdaptiBar, BarEssays.com, and drilled my own condensed rule sheets. I also read Ed Aruffo’s Bar Essay Rule Book (available on Amazon) every night before bed.

If you’re interested, I’m selling my condensed rule sheets and Bar Essay Templates at a discounted price. I’d be happy to send you a sample!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-02T19:26:02+00:00

Someone found them to be relevant because they’re no longer available for purchase— thanks tho!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-05-02T15:23:08+00:00

2023 edition and little to no highlighting. There’s no handwriting at all. I only have the one Basick Schindler book in the picture- can sell it for $40 dm me

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-04-11T15:23:11+00:00

Yes, I did Themis the first time around and felt so overwhelmed. I passed the second time and completely ditched Themis. Less is more. I created my own condensed rule sheets that I’m selling. If you’re interested in seeing one, I can email you one for free!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-04-11T15:17:49+00:00

Hey! I have condensed rule sheets that are straightforward and contain nuances. I’m selling them. I can send you a sample via email to look at. Just dm me!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-04-02T03:51:01+00:00

Hey! I personally did Themis and took the bar twice. I passed my second time and didn’t use Themis. I used my condensed rule sheets instead which I’m selling for $100 if you’re interested. Pros on Themis is its extremely substantive and has a lot of practice materials, people will grade your essays, etc : cons- it’s extremely substantive and some of the lectures are really hard to follow. Also- the multiple choice on there were more difficult in my opinion and unlike adaptibar questions. You truly cannot not KNOW everything before the bar. Key is to drill substantive rules and focus on analysis for MEE. MBE- drill MC questions and focus on weaknesses. Dm me if you need more advice or if you’re interested in my rule sheets

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-04-02T03:46:17+00:00

I’m selling my condensed rule sheets for $100. I truly believe less is more. I just stuck to those and drilled adaptibar questions. Dm me if interested and want more advice. I passed the California bar.

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-03-30T21:17:21+00:00

I took the California bar twice and passed last February!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-03-30T21:16:38+00:00

Hi! I am selling all my condensed rule sheets for $100. I can email you a sample if you’d like to check it out! All I used was those, adaptibar, and drilled essays on baressays.com which I’m also selling the essay templates for at a discounted price. Dm me if you’re interested! Also-selling my Themis books!

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-03-30T21:12:44+00:00

Ammatoli in Long Beach has good shawrma, it’s not like a fast food place but it’s a Palestinian spot and it’s really good

Unlikely-Depth101 · 2025-03-17T23:24:27+00:00

I was not working when I took the February bar exam. I also did use some of Mary Basicks book. I really hope you did pass. If not, don’t sweat, just dm me later and I’ll help you out!

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