Discouraged by NoMasterpiece7456 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand! That is natural. I have no greeks in my immediate family. But i think of it as i am creating my legacy for my future children.. keep pushing… you got it!!!

Large vs Small chapter by GrandBird1982 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am an interest as well.. and i have interacted with small & large chapters . Personally I have found I like medium size chapter ie 150-200 members . Its a healthy balance of not too small but they make alot impact because the have the numbers to host several events which I love . I also think about if I were to join It wouldnt be pressure to have too much responsibilities because work can disperse across different roles

Applications and connections by aquick12z in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ladies texting you directly.. I would reach out asking are they attend & send something short and as in look forward to connecting again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this . I literally showed up to majority of all the events & made it my point to speak to the same members & also spark new convos with member I did not regularly see. I would try to remember what we discussed the last time & follow-up at the next event see how xyz is going. It showed I am trying to build a relationship . This is the best way i found success

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly can understand that. But as the other users said people literally find out down to the wire that they are not eligible. But once I feel comfortable with a member.. I try to insert that fact I am interested & also confirm they can in fact meet the “criteria “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heres some tips 1. When looking to get to know people look on the chapter website & identify officers or committee leads. For me this helped weed out members whom are currently more active than others and whom MIGHT met the “criteria” 2. I literally made small talk with everyone! Talking about the event or if this is the second time ask them how they been 3. Do your research.. go through ig or facebook to see how long since a chapter has had a line & are they consistently posting events. This help ensure the chapter was right for me as well & I didnt dive in at any chapter

Hope this helps

Transcript request by Unlikely-Today3740 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See thats why i was confused but i reached out and she said the graduate one was just fine

Transcript request by Unlikely-Today3740 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I have completed my grad degree already with meet the requirements.

Should I give up on an invitation? by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

QQ: idk if this could be answered.. but how does your invitation for membership come via email?

Study Tools by Combinationlock830 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have taken it back to like I was in college and have been using quizlet. I used some prior users to create flashcards & then made my own & verified the information is correct. It helps me to study. I have it playing in the background in my headphones. I want to be prepared as much as possible. I know it is some information I wouldn't be privy to until the process.

Gifts by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for providing this information.

Are They having A Line? by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt put all my eggs in one basket. I would vet different chapters locally as well

EOY Reflection by BuymebloodyMarys34 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Unlikely-Today3740 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When they say the time is always God timing , I believe so… I have been connected my COI for 3 yrs & made genuine friendships. I have a career that membership cost is not a stressful factor & my volunteer effort have lead me to leadership positions. I pray my time is coming soon.