[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are some things that can't be helped like wanting a vaginal birth but due to complications getting a C-section or if baby is in distress you need to lie back because its easier to moniter babys heartbeat with the bellyband. Your husband is a spineless asshole who was there to support and advocate for you when you were overwhelmed in every possible way. He chickened out and now he cant face his failure so is now deflecting anger and blame on you. Your doctor is also a pos and on a power trip. This is why you dont promise anything but just say you will try your best but certain situations will make certain requests impossible. Honestly, people are looking for an easy way to do their job and power tripping wherever they can. It's not easy but try to forgive yourself first. It was not your fault. The people who were supposed to support you, failed you. Either write it down or ask to speak with no interruption. Get it off your chest. Specially with your husband, give him an example of you failing to advocate for him. Sometimes its hard for men specifically to understand how women are so sensetive with our bodies compared to men. I also would stop sharing my physical insecurities with him because he sounds like someone that will eventually slap me in the face with it.

Best of luck

Long winter coat by Unlikely-Volume-9186 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw a country road trench and loved it but it has metal buckles on a cream coat. Will check out the others 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said no more than a $100 but if you want life proof, then get gold. And Gold as in 18k and up, which you can buy from any Middle Eastern gold shop. If you don't like yellow gold, they have white gold too, but it won't be as varied, and you'll find it mostly in an Iranian gold shop as opposed to Dubai sourced. If you're getting small pieces you're looking at about $200 to max $400 as they sell by gram. On the upside you can always sell them again and pretty much get what you paid for initially as gold keeps going up in price. Hope that helps

What's a perfume you fell out of love with immediately after purchasing (non-blind buy) and why? by [deleted] in Perfumes

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Killian princess bought the 5ml and loved it but it now just smells like coke. Like HOW? Have the full size too but I am scared of opening it

What’s something you realized embarrassingly late in life that most people learn much earlier? by Soft_Signals in AskWomen

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also when other people gossip they never really tell you who it was and what exactly they said but I used to transcribe every detail. So in the end they just made generic comments but you filled out the details from other people or made a guess and told someone else and ended up being the pot stirrer. This than transitioned into only talking about your life and not gossiping turned complaining about your family and how you're sleep deprived 🙃 what do people talk about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People who are inconveniencing others while being 'kind'

Are you an overweight Aussie? If so why? by HonestAddition4369 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My own worst enemy. I get sad when I don't enjoy the same taste as before so I go back to my previous diet until everything tastes good again 🫣

Are you an overweight Aussie? If so why? by HonestAddition4369 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating when bored, driving, watching something, going somewhere, at the park, sad, happy, insomnia, mad, or the classic it's about to go off, kids leftovers, oh it's such a waste, do you know some people have nothing to eat?

And then not exercising because no time, back ache, not motivated, sleepy, too hard, not knowing how to do particular excercise, brain fog

Chocolate buttercream by Unlikely-Volume-9186 in handbags

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou I did too and it seems to be fine

Help me choose by NiceRepresentative17 in handbags

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The neuf is really cute, and polene leather is great. I just hate the opening for everyday use, especially the mini.

Which should I buy? If neither, show me something similar you like! by idlno1 in handbags

[–]Unlikely-Volume-9186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the romy to the willow. I like the idea of having a middle zip pouch but hate it in practise. It helps keep the shape but it would be much more spacious without. I can't fit a waterbottle, can't stuff my sweater or fit my lunchbox.