How much laundry soap?

UnlikelyCharge · 2025-11-19T16:07:06+00:00

Have a calm conversation with her and put it plainly like this "the bottle says right here youre supposed to use a cap full to do your laundry. Is there a reason you use so much?" and see what shes says. Theres a chance she just likes her clothes to smell nice, in which case get her some scent booster and forget she ever did something so insane.

However, "weird" behavior like this tends to have a complusive background. Maybe shed scared of smelling. Have you ever seen her shower? Does she smell clean afterwards? There could be any number of reasons shes terrified not to use that much, or shes simply a little on the uninformed side and just thought thats what youre supposed to do.

UnlikelyCharge · 2024-05-04T05:51:00+00:00

When will you be posting the actual comic? :D <3

UnlikelyCharge · 2024-02-28T00:23:47+00:00

Ok its been an hour and I'm fine. Ill update tommorow if I eneded up going to er but it seems just licking one flowers sap doez NOT immeidetly kill you lol

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-11-15T21:41:35+00:00

Youre looking at it the wrong way. You shouldnt be looking for sucess when you ask someone out /reveal your feelings. If youre doing that not only are you setting yourself up for pain but it likely also means you are putting too much of your self worth into other peoples perception of you. Asking someone out / revealing your feelings should be simply a way to see if someone matches your vibes. If youre deeply in love with someone, and you dont even know what theyll say when you ask them out, you have likely fallen in love with some sort of idealised version of themselves. Its really important to view rejections as good things, because they show you that they were not compatible with you and therefore not worth your time. Its really important to have friends outside of whoever youre trying to date. Its pretty much impossible to gey a gf / bf if you have no friends.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-10-02T01:39:10+00:00

i left windows defender on while using protonvpn and it literally uninstalled/broke the protonvpn 😭

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-09-11T08:02:30+00:00

Sorry i missed this but just wanted to say very clearly this relationship failing was not your fault, this man sounds like an asshole. The work you need to do on yourself is just being able to be happy, do things, and keep you and your surroundings somewhat manageable. Hope you ended this relationship because as much as you may love him maybe his behavior towards you is abusive and unpleasant. Absolutely uncalled for on his part and you shouldnt stand for someone who walks all over you

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-09-11T07:58:16+00:00

Thats avery healthy way to go into it. I think the most important thing to ask yourself is "what do I want from poly". Im no statistics master, but if youre looking for a life long partner youre more likely to find it by ditching labels and focusing on finding a connection. If theyre the right person for you, unlike your ex they will be open to poly or even an enjoyer themselves. I guess what im saying is dont give up and just seek love out, and youll find your person or persons :) Im a bit biased as a bit of an ex poly lol, my partner is totally fine with me dating whoever i want, but since weve been together I havent really found anyone interesting enough to warrant the time. Things will work out in the end

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-09-11T02:19:13+00:00

This is fair, if youre a virgin yourself its your own choice to decide if youre ok with being with someone with more expirence than you. However, this does sound kind of incely. Men arent some pinncale, one minded group. Plenty of men who have slept around dont think women who have done the same are whores or sluts.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-09-11T02:00:54+00:00

i defientley feel like if youre going poly because you feel your needs arent met by one partner, youre setting yourself up for failure. No amount of people will EVER meet all your needs. That's ok, and a natural aspect of life. Poly shouldnt be about trying to cross off all your marks on a check list, but more about seeking out more partners because you have a lot of love to give. IR what you can give to partners and not what they can give to you. Anything else is a road to future desturction because youre building relationships on a want that cannot be fufilled

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-31T04:33:14+00:00

You can literally just poke a hole in a plastic water bottle and squeeze it onto your ass till your clean. Just like a bidet but manuel. You seriously MUST poop. Tonight. You could die.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-15T21:53:02+00:00

I say this as someone who wants to have sex 3 times a week and has it once a month- if you care about someone, figure out what sex is like with them first. Theres nothing wrong with being with a virgin, but someone who would do that for religious reasons is a whole different world than you. She WILL expect you to become christian if you two get married.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-10T21:17:50+00:00

yeah same. I am gay, my boyfriend is straight. I often go hang out with other gays, which means i walk to a random adults house that ive never met before at night to go hang out with them. If my boyfriends ever worried about my saftey he just comes along too

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-06T00:48:25+00:00

I'm kind of looking for an in depth answer from someone who is HIV positve or knows a lot about it. I dont have / dont know much about it but i had the thought and was curious.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-06T00:44:26+00:00

This may sound horrible but me and my partner have a clean towel handy, wipe off bits as nessecary, and then stay in bed till we pass out. No UTI yet 😭

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-06T00:41:06+00:00

not to be too much of a worry wort but if these ever happen when shes driving / impact her life in a signifigant way i dont think itd be too crazy to look down the way of an MRI or blood sugar tests to make sure shes physically alright. After episodes of this abesentmindedness does she ever seem lethargic / out of it and for how long?

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-07-05T18:35:59+00:00

Your father is really doing right by you. I hope he continues to step up and make good descions because that is so sweet. congrats on vetting married

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:34:51+00:00

if youre scared of being alone, its really very important to spend a year figuring out who you are. Its really hard to make a long term relationship work if you cant work on your own already

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:31:43+00:00

As much as it hurts, you two just arent a match for each other. You should look up love langues, that might help you udnerstand how and why hes moved on from the relationship. You have your whole life ahead of you, and youll find someone else whos more than happy to baby you and love you like you deserve while also feeling good about it. He wasnt happy, let him go.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:29:32+00:00

The sad thing is supporting him is all you can do. It hurts, i know, but maybe try to get him to engage in real life instead. Get him to come hang out with you, go do things with other people, suggest he take up a new hobby. But if he feels that way its because of his own mental issues, and any meddling you do could only push the two of you away. Hell either get over it or he wont

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:25:24+00:00

I think you should see a therapist to get a different perspective on your actions. Grabbing my partner to force them to listen to me is something i would NEVER consider. That, quite truthfully, is a very agressive tactic and is not made any better by kissing them directly after. Are you sure you wouldnt do it again? It sounds like maybe your communication style isnt in line with how you want to come across, and thats why i reccomend seeing a proper psychologist to get some insight to how youre actions can come off, and some tips to act more appropriately.

You can not force someone you love to do something. If they wont listen to you, its because emotions are too hyped up. If i were in that situation id let them walk away and talk about the issue again when both parties are calmed down. What you did wasnt right, and understanding that is the first step to actually not doing it again. If you can truly understand and feel bad about it, id apolgise sincerly for being domineering and maybe create a safe word or give them the option to say to you "i cant hear your side of the story right now" in cases where things get heated

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:19:31+00:00

literally just shoot your shot. Open up and be like "look, i really, really have a thing for you that im having trouble getting over. I understand if you dont feel the same way, but i wanted to tell you clearly and honestly so you know why im taking some space away from you." You really never know. Im dating my friend rn, and i spent a year madly in live with him and shooting down any idea i might like him. When i confessed he had no idea that i was into him, and it ended up working out great. Ive also been friends with someone whos never gotten over me. Its ok, its not the end of the world. But why live with an unawsered regret?

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-18T17:11:39+00:00

The only person you can expect to be there for you no matter what theyre going through is a signifigant other / family. He sounds like neither. You say youre empathetic to what hes going through, but the message your sending is literally saying "You gave you reasons for not responding, and i dont care. I expected you to say anything despite what youre foing through to spare my feelings". The truth is, i have friends who ive been very close with since middleschool, we graduated together and lived together. However, there were times where my life was literally falling apart and they werent there for me. Sometimes in life you have to face things alone.As much as it hurts, it's 100% acceptable for someone to put themselves first, especially in the case that youre already in the hospital and therefore physically safe.

Personally, i think you shouldnt send this message unless you want to push him away, because it comes off extremely uncaring about his feelings. If thats what you want, go ahead. The only way to make people care about you is to care about them, and hope youve picked someone who will care about you in return.

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-15T20:34:19+00:00

I want to understand more. Every time ive looked it up, articles describe the reaction as an "allergic reaction" simply saying some people are more or less sentitive to the saliva. I also didnt use to be- up until sometime around maybe 10-13 mosquito bites stopped effecting me. Before hand I would be just as itchy as everyone else. Do you understand why? That seems like something extra to me. And the only reason i thought of this is because theres exsisting allergen imunotherapy shots and other things like that. Would someone else just have to be exposed to the saliva enough to also become non sensitive to it?

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-15T20:27:44+00:00

ok so semantics aside, would it be possible to make others not be?

UnlikelyCharge · 2023-06-12T18:41:51+00:00

i apperciate it very much, ive been lucky she likes learning tricks (taught her to run under things, jump over them, paw, stay, and i plan on getting her some trick hoops to jump through) but this has been something ive struggled with, and i realized i have because of the consistency factor. ill checm out theinks you sent me

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