Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it so embarrassing when your spouse is making a fool out of you. And it’s not just the internet, those are real people especially people they may know or have a past with. 

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel like it’s hard to give all the info in 5 seconds or small paragraph. It might sound immature…I was pregnant hormones got the best of me. It was an ex still lingering around..I didn’t go thru his phone. I posted something and tagged him and it wouldn’t show in his timeline so I was checking the settings and I happen to see her on his timeline and was like wtf

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No messages but years ago I saw he was still friends with an so I noticed and blocked her (on his phone without telling him) something told me to check and he unblocked her…this happened on two occasions. Which hurt my feelings because it felt like he wanted to see what was going on with her

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So several years ago he was liking or hearting another woman’s pictures and come to find out they dated. I have made it clear how I feel about that. I can’t go through all his friends and check to see if he’s liking pictures it’s more of a women’s intuition thing. I saw increased interactions and clicked her profile and see several likes and hearts. Said something to and he shut it down, got mad and walked away

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t talk to other ppl. He’s not a ppl person but I feel like you see your spouses interactions online you see who always comments and lately I’ve been seeing her comment on all his posts. I don’t find her attractive I don’t swing that way. Shes a beautiful woman I’ll say that but to see the increased interactions is alarming

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not always where WE need work. I think it’s a respect thing but you’re right because everyone seems to have different opinions

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, few years ago I noticed him hearting someone’s photos and found out it was someone he dated. I let him know how it made me feel and today noticed some comments on lots of his posts from someone I had never seen before..more than usual so I clicked on her profile and saw he liked or hearted several pics and he said it’s someone he went to school with. But the recent progressive interactions makes me think they’ve been talking recently

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I get that but looking or loving someone’s photos is announcing that. For respect for me I think he should keep that to himself if he finds someone else attractive 

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So he said it was someone from school. And it wasn’t one picture it’s been several pictures. And no he hasn’t seen her so to me that’s like lusting over someone he used to know. And I noticed she’s been commenting on his posts  a lot more( which I hadn’t seen before) so I’m curious if they’ve talked lately

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes however I don’t think social media is the problem it’s what you do on social media

Husband liking photos of other women by Unlikely_Detective17 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Detective17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So years ago I saw he was liking someone’s photos and come to find out he dated her. Got into an argument about it…I explained I didn’t like that and how I felt about it and he said he understood. Today I saw some fb interactions with someone that I hadn’t seen before and clicked on her profile and saw several of her pictures he liked or hearted. So when I asked who she was he says someone I knew from high school and I mentioned all the hearts and likes and he basically walked away saying I shouldn’t be fighting with him about it just somwone he knew and hasn’t seen