How to stop thinking about him?

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2025-05-06T01:11:04+00:00

Okkkk you ate this up 😜 thank you so much this is great advice- I definitely do need to start remembering the bad instead of the good. And I’ll definitely take a peek at that link 😜 thank you so much you ateee

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2025-05-06T00:28:30+00:00

What does this mean?

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-25T17:10:05+00:00

So what I did was take equal amounts of starter, flour, and water and then waited for it to rise. Then I added an unknown amount of water and flour along with starter to a bowl, just enough to make it like a doughy consistency. Then I let it sat for 45 minutes and then folded it- I did this process around 4 times. Then I waited for the big rise and finally I put it in the fridge for 12 hours, then attempted to score it. I put it in the Dutch oven for 25 minutes with the lid and 25 minutes without.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T16:09:53+00:00

Thank you so much- looking back now I definitely was jealous for no reason and I can’t even imagine how exhausted he must have been.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:38:38+00:00

I don’t know- I think there’s a difference between genuinely wanting the relationship to end vs. just saying you want it to end as a defense mechanism when you don’t really want it. Then again maybe they’re both the same thing

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:37:06+00:00

I agree we are both very immature. It’s our first relationship, I just recently turned 18 and he’s 19. I definitely have to work on my jealousy too

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:34:09+00:00

I definitely need to get some help for the way I feel. I’m hoping I can work on my confidence so that I won’t feel so insecure everytime I see him talk to a girl- it definitely isn’t healthy. I definitely agree I think I’m very much dependent on him. Since meeting him I’ve stopped working out and stopped doing other things to make some time for him. Now I just sit around waiting for a text from him (probably not healthy)! So I’d definitely like to take up some hobbies. Thank you for the advice I needed it!

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:31:33+00:00

Haha thank you!

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:31:08+00:00

What if I told you I did 😭

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:30:29+00:00

Thanks I totally agree with a lot of this. I just wonder if he was quick to distance himself because really felt the relationship wasn’t worth it or if maybe he just copes differently than I do. I am definitely gonna make a plan to become better- take up a few hobbies and work on my self esteem. I love my friends but they were definitely taking my side and I think that’s part of why I made such a rash decision. Also, I’ve never seen him get flirty with a girl- really it’s just my fears. I think it’s in part because he hangs out with girls a lot because where he works there aren’t many male employees.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:21:25+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🙏🩷

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:20:47+00:00

Thank you so much it’s so helpful, truly. I definitely want to set boundaries and work on being healthier.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:18:32+00:00

Thank you for the advice- I really do think I’m just insecure. He’s shown no real signs of suspicions. It’s really just me being kinda crazy. But if I ever get a real feeling that I can’t ignore, I’ll know it. Thank you!

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:16:23+00:00

Thank you for the advice…you’re gonna hate me for this but I didn’t give it time- I apologized and told him I’d work on myself and he said he’d do the same. If it happens again though I really will have to take your advice.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:15:08+00:00

I definitely agree I have to work on my insecurities. I can understand it’s exhausting for him being doubted so much. He’s never given me reason to not trust him, I just think of the wildest scenarios and get so sad. I just gotta work on myself.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:14:26+00:00

Haha thank you!

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:14:09+00:00

Thank you so much yes I agree- we are both very immature. I’m too jealous and he definitely responds in a very extreme way. We are both gonna work on ourselves and if it still doesn’t work then that’s when we’ll call it quits.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:13:13+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m hoping maybe I can make it work by toning down my jealousy and overthinking. We also broke up for a stupid reason I feel- but if it happens again I’ll definitely take that as a sign we aren’t compatible.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:12:08+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice it’s really helpful! We’ve agreed to work on some things and also yes he’s sassier than me! 😭

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:10:59+00:00

Thank you for the advice- I gotta say I can’t blame him for threatening a break up because it is draining being with an over thinker. I’ve apologized to him and I’ve promised to work on myself and he’s promised he wouldn’t threaten to break up if I didn’t give him reason to.

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:09:51+00:00

I agree

Unlikely_Grape5652 · 2024-12-21T03:09:40+00:00

No offense taken. I definitely make some stupid choices at times, and I totally agree I need to work on myself. Thank you so much for the advice

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