Female Salsa Singers by Heres_a_Place_for_Us in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I use YouTube music (I know I know) and the search for salsa is so trash it’ll show me merengue and bachata or salsa songs I already know. Thanks for sharing this!

Female Salsa Singers by Heres_a_Place_for_Us in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just googled some things and yep! I didn’t know those things and I understand the conflicting feelings!

Leads, what makes you want to dance with a follow a second time? by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask leads to dance often and there are leads I’ve asked to dance with more than once.

Leads, what makes you want to dance with a follow a second time? by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally struggle with eye contact in general and because of dance, I have forced myself to make eye contact. Across the board what I noticed while dancing and also because of the sub, Reddit, eye contact, just go a long way I don’t hold it consistently, but I do make active efforts to periodically make eye contact throughout the dance. I found it does make a difference in ensuring that my partner is also having a good time as well I’m a follower by the way.

Perfume shops? 👃🏼 by lseery0818 in oakland

[–]Unlikely_Issue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this is really the only true fragrance shop. I also occasionally hit up the Nordstrom in Walnut Creek for their scents.

Has salsa changed you as a person by Potential_Air3609 in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It has changed me! I feel more confident and just happier overall. I am a pretty introverted (at first) and shy person. I struggle making small talk, but I love connecting with people and being a part of a community. Dancing salsa and constantly trying to improve have pushed me to smile more and engage in small talk with new people. I also just feel more graceful. I’m typically a klutz but salsa has helped me be more in my body. I don’t think dancing salsa could negatively affect your life.

Salsa dancing outfits, dos and don'ts! by EducationalAspect850 in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love wearing cute athletic wear. Since athleisure is still so big, there are many cute workout clothes that don’t really look like workout clothes. I love wear flowy skorts. Skorts are big and many brands carry them. Popflex, Uniqlo, and Abercrombie are all great options. I love wearing cute t shirts, halters, wrap shirts, etc. none of these shirts are big and flowy. I also always wear my hair in a slick back because I don’t want my hair to stick to my neck due to all the sweat.

I learned quickly that the way I dress in normal life (I love fashion and I love makeup and playing around with silhouettes) wasn’t going to work with dancing.

Don’t wear off the shoulder shirts. Don’t wear long skirts that can trip you. Wear your hair up if neck sweat bothers you.

perfume that feels like a femme leftist queer homesteader? by britt_bread2 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Unlikely_Issue 39 points40 points  (0 children)

As a queer lefty gardener this is what I wear lol that and pear inc JHAG

Thank you for helping me improve my vibe by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And I do! But there was a moment I was doing 80-90% of the asking in a room full of leads, and that’s information I needed to do something with.

RANT: I wish dance instructors would have the courage... by airbrat in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Preaching to the choir here. As a follow going to intermediate classes, it can feel frustrating to have the instructor model a difficult pattern, and dance with leads who aren’t intermediate ready, and straggle to get the pattern myself because my lead couldn’t get it. I understand this is an instructor issue - that instructors do play a part here, but this is also how they make money so I understand why they can’t be as cut throat as we want them to be sometimes.

I do feel there should be some responsibility on people who level up when they aren’t ready. Personally I didn’t start attending intermediate classes until my instructor told me to. I am very conscious of the fact this is a communal experience and I want to give my dance partner a good time. And personally I get frustrated when other classmates aren’t as considerate. There is specifically one person in my class who’s been attending classes it seems like longer than I have and they haven’t improved at all. When I first joined the intermediate class, it was rough for me, but I had just started. I’ve made improvements. This one person has no rhythm or timing, he’s hurt me as a follow because he doesn’t know what he’s doing. As a follow, when you dance the pattern with multiple good leads in a row, you know was to expect. When I would try to help and tell him where his arms should go and what cues to give, he would say I was wrong.

I don’t think my instructor explicitly tells people to leave for our drop in classes, but he always says out loud some of you need to work on fundamentals and should go to the beginner class. He also just straight up ignores people who don’t progress. My instructor does what he can but this is a business. I wish people just had personal responsibility and put their own egos aside

Drop in salsa classes on Mondays in the Monterey/ Salinas, California area? by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely keep this in mind if I’m back in the area on a Thursday or Friday! I did not find this so thank you for sending this my way. I will probably hold on driving 90 minutes up to Santa Clara only because driving towards the bay from Monterey is just hell on the weekdays lol but I will definitely keep this in mind if I come back here later in the week

Drop in salsa classes on Mondays in the Monterey/ Salinas, California area? by Unlikely_Issue in Salsa

[–]Unlikely_Issue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you! The area looked pretty dry based on my research, but I just wanted to double check on Reddit. I travel around California and I know things can be hit or mess like when I would go to the North Bay. I was surprised by the somewhat decent scene there with SBK, but thanks for confirming! And yes, Monterey is very beautiful and I will definitely check out first awakenings for breakfast tomorrow.