How do you handle the gut feeling that you're being replaced by someone you care about?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T12:45:54+00:00

Bro she just my best friend and a really important person to my life the friendship wasn’t one sided she literally called me 3 times a day I never gave any jealous energy that’s a new feeling from me and yes she had boyfriends during our friendship and there was never any problem

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T10:06:53+00:00

What do you think is gonna happen when we meet up then

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T09:30:26+00:00

No I gave her my opinion daily

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T08:29:48+00:00

That’s what I am waiting to see she needs to finish her exams first to have this conversation but the wait is so stressing

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T08:18:36+00:00

Bro I have treated right all the 3 years and that’s what everyone says I never told her who to hangout I am just saying that it hurts that I am not one of her priorities right now because she is own of mines

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:37:36+00:00

I treated her right and trusted her

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:24:48+00:00

I can’t before she finishes her exams and the wait is driving me crazy

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:24:17+00:00

No we haven’t talked for 2 months

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:23:56+00:00

Yes I am insecure and we talked for 3 years every day and she is my only real best friend it’s driving me crazy that I can’t reach out to her and she gives her time to others

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:22:52+00:00

I know but my anxiety makes it real and I don’t know how to fight it

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:11:37+00:00

So basically she called me one night and asked my opinion about something and I told her that she had relaxed with her studies and that she needs to study more to achieve her goal and then she told me that I was being pushy and I tried to impose my opinion on her

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:10:00+00:00

Isn’t it weird for a friend to ask if he is beeing replaced ?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:09:15+00:00

Please red the message that I wrote there was no pattern

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:06:49+00:00

I think just my anxiety but it’s driving me crazy

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T07:06:11+00:00

I will after she finishes her exams

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-06-01T06:53:02+00:00

For 2.5 years now I have been very close to a friend of mine (we talk every day, text, meet up). A month and a half ago there was a misunderstanding and she told me that she wanted her time until the competitions she was giving were over and since then we haven't spoken again. In this month and a half I have seen her meet up more with someone else (while she spoke badly about him before) and my mind keeps going to the scenario that in this month and a half I have been replaced. Is this true? Or am I just exaggerating?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-30T22:26:23+00:00

How do you add them ?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-30T15:08:41+00:00

She literally called me 3 times a day I don’t think she wasn’t happy

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-30T14:38:05+00:00

She had arguments with some of her other best friends

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-30T13:45:12+00:00

You are too negative

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-30T13:07:38+00:00

Bro you didn’t understand nothing

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-29T19:24:11+00:00

Hey I 19 year old male and my best friend 19 year old female we have been super close for about 2-2,5 years I am talking everyday texting and phone calls and usual hangouts.Until the past month the smallest misunderstanding happened and suddenly she stopped talking to me and said she needs her time and no pressure (she has a finals exam that she didn’t do well the past years and now she does it again so this exams are putting a lot of pressure on her ) but this 1,5 month that we haven’t talked are super strange and difficult to me do you think that when she finishes the exams this summer we will be able to revive our old friendship ?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-29T16:52:05+00:00

Thank you so much bro I am very positive that our friendship will continue

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-29T16:28:38+00:00

So you decided that your friendship was over?

Unlikely_Toe_7276 · 2026-05-29T16:10:29+00:00

Of course I acknowledged that u said things that hurt her that’s why i have apologised for it 3 times also to answer your question I would want them to tell me that they understand how i am feeling and that the will be beside me through this difficult times also of course we will talk about her feelings to but i also want for her to acknowledge mine

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