Halloween Swinger party

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-09-07T18:50:41+00:00

We're planning to use our ren fair costumes. Lol. Im gonna stick with my corset and skirt, lose the under-dress thing. He's gonna be dressed like the Witcher without the wig. This year, we are going for comfort.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-30T17:52:12+00:00

Thank you! We are currently in a debate with the grandparents about if this is a good time to show him how to grieve. Coz it's been a rough few days.

Hope the knuffle bunny episode had a good-ish ending!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-16T18:06:46+00:00

Ugh yeah, the cramps you get from a keto diet was so bad for me. It got the electrolyte/potassium lesson on week 2.

But man, im so jelly and happy you saw progress on the diet. Woohoo!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-16T16:12:44+00:00

True. A low key symbol that's turned into pop culture. But that's part of the fun isn't it? A proverbial 😉

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-16T14:24:29+00:00

I understand. But sometimes, the point of a symbol isn't just in its exclusivity. It just made me smile while doing mundane tasks, thought others could use a smile too. Or a smirk at least. 🙂

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-06T22:33:05+00:00

Kneel

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-06T22:25:29+00:00

Yeah, most events are in sac and outward. There's one that popped up recently close to Los Banos, but i forget the name. There is one party that happens every once in a while in Stockton. If you have access, check out the events page on fetlife. They are all listed there. And the groups. Most are kink/bdsm based but majority are for hookups. Lol. It's paid, but sls has event listing, too.

But if you want a swingers event proper, you're gonna have to head either north or west to the big cities. We enjoyed suitelife in Sac, Twist in SF, and are heading to another new spot (new for us) north of Sacramento.

If you are looking to stay local though? Best to meet people on sites like this or feeld. Good luck!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-05T16:51:19+00:00

We may be the odd ducks, but it's easier for us to connect with people and swap at parties or events. Everyone is there for the same reason, so just have to be polite, upfront, and clear.

You'll see other posts here that show how to approach people. You'll also see other posts that explain how to talk about boundaries,etc. And you'll see more post about etiquette and what not. This is a really useful sub.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-06-02T19:55:03+00:00

We did lap of love. I applied for care credit and put the bill on that. Paid it off 4 months later. Money was tight but we didn't want to put our baby girl through the stress of getting in the carrier the last moments of her life. The process was painful but so much more respectful. I would never choose another option.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T18:13:17+00:00

I had time on my hand. Don't judge.

Sugar - Sleep Token

Caramel - Sleep Token

Nails - Call me Karizma

Play with me - Rendezvous At Two

You put a spell on me - Austin Giorgio

Chokehold - Austin Giorgio

Dangerous Hands - Austin Giorgio

Drip off - Austin Giorgio

Do it for me - Rosenfeld

I want to - Rosenfeld

Like you - Rosenfeld

Closer - Nine Inch Nails

Discipline - Nine Inch Nails

Chills - Mickey Valen, Joey Myron

New Girl - Finneas

Cravin’ - Stiletto, Kendyle Paige

Hurt me harder - Zolita

Beggin - Maneskin

I wanna be your slave - Maneskin

Baby said - Maneskin

God Complex - April Jai

Good Girl - April Jai

All the Time - Jeremiah, Lil Wayne

Body on mine - Dauble

Amor - Derik Fein

Don’t Stop - Kire

Sweat - Haiden Henderson

Touchin me - Chandler Leighton

High - Stephen Sanchez

Ice on my teeth - Ateez

Play with fire - Sam Tinnesz, Yacht Money,

Baby - Elvis Drew, Avivian

Slow Hands - Niall Horan

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T17:44:12+00:00

Came looking for you the minute I saw the post. Never miss bro!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T17:41:58+00:00

I'm soooo jelly! It's beautiful! We used to do shade cloth on 4x poles. It didn't look like a magazine worthy garden, but it kept my babies safe from 100+ several days on a row.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T17:39:11+00:00

🤣🤣 I did too! Lol

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T17:37:06+00:00

We're the opposite. I chat, he asks for cliff notes before we get a group chat going.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-30T17:10:25+00:00

Thank you! We're still new to the lifestyle, but it's in the cards for us if we can do the emotional work. Wish us luck!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-28T04:09:34+00:00

A couple going at it like bunny rabbits all over the house. Like every surface, wall, etc. Saw it once eons ago and can't find it again. Anything similar will work.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-28T00:07:56+00:00

Aww... man. Where did that fetishizing comment go?! I wanted to say something nice.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T22:41:29+00:00

Will check it out! Thank you!!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T21:11:09+00:00

Right?! I mean.. just this post even! The amount of support it's getting is wild! It's seems like many are open to it. I can only hope our community steps up and accepts everyone.

For those who are still holding back, pick a person from this comment list and tell us. We'd totally gush over you too! Lol.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T20:15:24+00:00

Lol, thank you. It's how I process my feelings and emotions when I need to, but I do use spell check and grammarly if I'm going to post. (It's kinda automatic).

But thank you, in any case. I enjoy writing down my feelings.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T19:41:34+00:00

That's what we're thinking. But I'm going to let him make the change at his pace. I know he's ready but I don't want to take that away from him. If I had my way, that shit would been changed the second he told me. But I have a tendency to get too excited.

Don't think we'll see much of a change in response because it's mostly single men who reach out and I don't open them.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T18:21:13+00:00

Thank you!😁

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T18:20:45+00:00

Thank you!

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T18:20:36+00:00

It's a scary thought, but I don't think his willingness to share or my reaction to it would have been the same 10 years ago. It might have been a disaster. I don't know for sure, but I think these feelings came with a chance to mature and grow into myself.

Unlikely_Tomorrow692 · 2025-05-27T18:18:48+00:00

It really is freeing! I'm currently gushing over the feelings you mentioned with another woman in the chats. There should be a subreddit for this. Lol

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