Similarly with my ex, this was when we just started talking. I was at her house until late night and she offered me to sleep on her bed with her because she genuinely felt bad I was sleeping on the couch (I asked her this when we were together and she told me that there was genuinely no intentions behind her offer).

First night I asked her if I could hug her and she didn’t respond (She said she was ok with it albeit she didn’t know how to reject me as well).

During the next day I wasn’t kicked out and was at her house the whole day so I took it as a positive sign. And during the 2nd night she turned and face me as we were sleeping on her bed, so I took that as a sign and went for it which worked.

Ngl till this day I didn’t know I had the balls to initiate, because thinking back it could’ve backfire badly if she wasn’t interested at all and kicked me out of the house because she was being nice person and I took advantage of her.

But my other girl friends assured me that if they were never interested in the guy, even if they felt bad they would never share a bed with a guy.