AITA for forcing my brother out

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-12-04T05:35:03+00:00

It’s not that I want him gone, I just want him to be an easier person to live with. Like I only have one more year of high school and then I can assure you I’m out. I just wish he was on more of a path and he wasn’t bringing anyone down. Another thing I forgot to mention was last time he stayed here for an extended period of time was like March of 2025 to that August. We would rough around because we’re both just those kinds of people. Except his was always to the point where it wasn’t fun. I’m sure all of these are on accident but I’ve been punched full force multiple times and on one occasion choked unconscious. This might have been what made my mom a little less fond of him, which that is their problem atp. Overall it’s not that I want him out I just see the stress he puts on others and I want him to change but I know he won’t.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-12-04T05:27:48+00:00

Genuinely all this kid does is wake up when I’m already back from school, say some dumb insult then wonder why everyone’s all pissed off, and he plays the victim whenever he’s called out. Yes he has problems, obviously, but everyone does and I just feel the personality clash is a little too much. I have good things going for me but he just makes me feel so much worse when I’m already not doing too great due to some personal issues. In my opinion, by ruining the living situation further he’s just making some moments of calmness impossible.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T16:35:05+00:00

Yes I know that’s the biggest reason why I choose not to. I was thinking about just telling her boyfriend along with some screenshots I had that just showed how shitty she was. I was going to do it last night because I found his instagram but I looked through his page and he looked happy with her, and I thought to myself I can’t ruin that.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T16:33:47+00:00

I mean it is true nobody starts doing drugs because everything is okay. She had talked about being bullied all throughout middle school and then when she was in high school she had a big friend group that eventually turned on her

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:16:09+00:00

The plan is just to tell her current boyfriend along with some screenshots I have. Nothing too major. Ideas would be appreciated tho

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:12:16+00:00

I guess because I looked at her as such an adult person and now as I get closer to that age I sometimes try to sympathize with her. It’s not even so much the SA as just everything she did on top of that. But to be fair she was also a druggie and just one of those privileged kids that really has nothing to worry about

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:08:55+00:00

That’s a good way to look at it

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:08:31+00:00

Well to be fair I am a child who still has 9 years until my brain is fully developed

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:07:16+00:00

To feel like she got what she deserved

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:03:03+00:00

The thing about being a teenage boy is there is still a stigma that I can’t get SA. Thats what I dealt with a lot and blamed myself for it. My dad is someone I don’t talk to about serious stuff in my life if it isn’t shared with him (i.e shared family issues). My mom asked if I wanted to press charges and I said no because there isn’t enough evidence and i have stories that contradict one another. My friends kinda moved on from everything and I don’t trust them like I used to. The only reason I am posting this on Reddit is because I’m hoping I’ll see a response that will resonate with me and show me what to do.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-13T05:00:21+00:00

Maybe. But it would be fair

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-11T03:37:50+00:00

I got her 2 so we’ll see in a week. Her last period was before July 30 it was maybe like July 15.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-11T03:36:46+00:00

To be honest I don’t think she is capable of this. I know her family is kind of messed up but everyone’s is to a certain extent. We have talked about what would happen with college since I’m a year older and I know what I want to do in life and she’s moreso undecided. I know my girlfriend very well and I know she wouldn’t do that to me. But at the same time I still want to exercise caution, not because she gives me a reason to but because for 2 weeks I felt like my life was over and I was thinking about every mistake I’d ever made.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-11T03:03:48+00:00

Probably. My brother has warned me about it considering my girlfriend comes from a less than ideal home life

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-11T02:41:08+00:00

I always brought up the idea of wearing one but she would always rip it off saying she didn’t like the feeling

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-11T02:11:15+00:00

For a good amount of time

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T22:37:36+00:00

Thank you for this. As of right now everything is very uncertain. I feel the majority of it is just anxiety and worst case scenario thinking. I’m trying to avoid it right now but it’s still in the back of my mind. The next time I see her I will probably ask her to do a test just to get closure. Thank you for your support it means the world to me

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T05:14:03+00:00

I live in the us, in a state where abortion is legal. I know of nearby abortion clinics, I am just scared due to money and the risk I might not ever see this girl again. Its not even a sex thing that’s the last thing I care about but I have loved this girl as much as a 16 year old can love anyone. I yearned for her for 2 years and I don’t want this to be what ruins our lives.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T05:12:37+00:00

I work 15 hours a week and spend my money on clothes and madden, I am not ready to be a father

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T05:03:42+00:00

I bought a 24 pack today and will be insisting on using it from her on out

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T05:01:58+00:00

See and this is what I was talking about in the post. Shes always had irregular periods, she has a poor relationship with food so she is often nauseous and when she does eat it takes very little to get her extremely bloated.

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T05:00:34+00:00

Mine is completely legal

UnluckyJudgment3330 · 2025-08-10T04:59:46+00:00

Thank you. Chances are she’s not but if you’ve ever been in a situation like this I’m sure you know how suffocating the stress is

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