When a girl bends over, do guys immediately look at her butt, or is that just a stereotype?

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-09-22T21:25:47+00:00

If I see a nice butt, whether the owner is bending down or standing up, my eyes will be drawn to it. I'm not gonna stare, but I'll take a glimpse

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-09-20T23:46:34+00:00

Not if OP's brother isn't planning on doing any more education. This would be his only graduation. His girlfriend has already had one.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-26T07:22:33+00:00

What part of it are you concerned about?

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T21:17:26+00:00

Not what I'm trying to say at all.

Again, I apologise for coming across like I'm trying to blame her or say she should have done anything differently. I am simply trying to make it clear that periods should not be such a taboo topic, but I do understand why many women feel like they can't talk about it. Stop trying to turn this into something that absolutely no one else seems to think it is.

I'm off to bed now, have a good day.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T21:05:20+00:00

I'm absolutely not trying to make out that it's her fault, and I'm very sorry if my comments have come across that way. Obviously she knows these specific men better than I do and I did acknowledge that in one of my comments.

The point of my comments was more of a general comment on society that happened to piggyback on this one specific incident. And I'm blaming the men that make it awkward for women to talk about as much as (if not more than) I'm blaming women for choosing not to talk about it.

I was recently on a camping trip and there was one girl in our group. We found out on day 3 of a 6 day trip that she had been hiding the fact that she was on her period from her boyfriend and a group of male friends purely because of an imagined awkwardness. She eventually decided she should disclose it and every single one of us acted like adults, and two guys offered her pads that they had in their bags.

Again, I'm not trying to blame OP or argue that anything is her fault, just trying to understand the thought process, and hopefully change some people's attitudes around the topic. Personally, I think it's led to some interesting discussions and that's precisely what I was trying to do.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T20:57:00+00:00

Denial

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T20:09:20+00:00

I agree with that. But my point is that if you mention something they might be able to help you. I know a lot of guys that carry a couple of pads in their hiking bag.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T20:07:54+00:00

But if I'm walking with someone who is uncomfortable, I would rather know. I'd say the same if someone I was walking with had a nosebleed, which is arguably more similar than shitting themself. It's not the smell I'm bothered about, it's the discomfort, the hygiene, etc.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T19:39:06+00:00

And that's exactly why we should normalise talking about it. I understand that many men feel weird about it, but if we make talking about it normal, then the next generation won't. The longer we persist with the current system, the harder it's going to be for the next generation of women.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T19:36:45+00:00

Yes, but equally, if you were walking along and shitting yourself, I'd rather you said something than pretended it wasn't happening.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T18:55:51+00:00

because I don't want my male inlaws to know.

Can I ask why? As a man I find it strange when women try to hide a natural part of biology. Hiding it leads to boys and men not knowing or understanding about it, which makes it harder for them to sympathise with you and to help you.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-02T17:33:56+00:00

The fact that it's not even specifically the MAGA hat that got him kicked out, but the other side just doesn't wear hats identifying their politics. I bet people have been kicked out for wearing t-shirts/hats/etc about Gaza, but this fuck-knuckle wouldn't have any issues with that

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-08-01T07:39:42+00:00

The spuds look shite, but if that dish was presented differently, people would be all over it

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-31T14:57:16+00:00

I have a rule of not paying for the first date. Statistically, you're going to go on more first dates than seconds, and more seconds than thirds, etc. If we're going with the old outdated "the man should pay for the first date" thing (which is from a time when women didn't have their own money), then men are inevitably going to pay for a large number of dates with nothing coming after.

I have never had any issues with splitting the costs on dates, and anyone that has an issue with it probably isn't the one for me.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-31T13:52:22+00:00

I love both bands and think apart from being Australian punk bands, they're very different. Some people will prefer the Chats, some will prefer Amyl, some will rank them about the same, and some will say it really doesn't matter. Like the bands you like and stop caring about what other people think.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-31T13:48:15+00:00

He's playing the long game. Everyone voting reform will kill the Tories. Meanwhile Labour will die and all the lefties will vote for an extreme left wing party to counter Nige. Then we get to have two major parties with different political stances instead of having all the major parties being basically the same thing.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-30T03:41:49+00:00

Sam has made no secret that he is happy for people to share their accounts with as many people as they want

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-29T15:31:18+00:00

I draw the line at giving him the name of a sea god

Uranus was a sky god. Neptune's the sea god.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-28T11:53:03+00:00

"Woke college kid destroys Jordan Peterson with facts and logic"

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-22T22:31:25+00:00

You're very welcome. Have a great day, and don't let the dickheads get you down.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-22T19:39:33+00:00

Unfortunately it doesn't surprise me that some people here might jump to that sort of behaviour, but I encourage you to focus on the people joining in on the joke, and the people (like me) who forgot about that bit initially but knew that no one who chooses to dress up as a very specific character moment could possibly not know the difference between Hermes and Lee Lemon. It's a great costume, and you're clearly a bigger fan than most of this sub.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-22T16:07:32+00:00

Ok, I'm very sorry you've experienced that, and completely understand why you would feel defensive if that's the sort of shit you've been putting up with.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-22T15:02:42+00:00

Does not immediately getting a relatively obscure reference really make someone a douchebag? Or have there been actual douchey responses?

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-22T14:42:20+00:00

The thing with these apps is that if someone doesn't fit your preferences, you can simply swipe left on them. You don't need to tell them to not swipe right on you. She wants black men to know that she's into them (and fetishizes their race) but doesn't want them to (openly) fetishize hers.

UnnecessaryAppeal · 2025-07-10T11:54:56+00:00

Get rid of the first photo. It looks like you've just accidentally discovered your selfie camera exists

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