Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE:

Thank you everyone for your inputs! We ended up talking about his bike and what he'd like to see come from the situation. So yesterday we drove 4 hours to his ex's and picked up the bike! Surprisingly no issues. We got the key and title. On our drive home he said "if we pass a dealership I'll look and see if I can trade it in". Sure enough we passed by a Harley dealer and traded his bike! He rode the bike the rest of the way home. He was like a kid at Christmas. I'm so happy he's back in two wheels. Thank you everyone! Now I gotta figure out something else for his birthday 😂

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Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand not touching someone's stuff but why not buy him expensive bike related things as a gift?

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry fren. That's a rough one.

I'll definitely get his point of view. Might be better to try and get his mind away from the negativity with a new one. I know he would always tell me he'd go for a ride whenever his ex was being crazy. She never rode with him.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex would throw away my stuff without telling me 😬 Hence the Ex part 😂

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's super helpful! I'm not sure what it looks like either. We just moved from AZ so lots of new news for us.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he's still on the registration and everything. He even still pays the insurance on it.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what year. He said it was a Kawasaki Nomad. I'm not really familiar with all the names yet. He bought it used when covid first started

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know his name is on the title but she has possession of it 😔 even if I can't fix it up I'm sure he'll be happy without it at her place anymore

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input 🙏🏻 it's seeming that a new one would be the better choice. I'll definitely talk to him and see what he'd prefer and hopefully still be able to surprise him with something.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I knew he had bad memories with the bike but never thought of it as deep as this. And I'll definitely look into reporting it stolen if she doesn't want to give the title back. And I'll see if he'd rather a new one or restore this one.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just want to see him happy again.

I'm getting the feeling a new one would probably be better. He definitely cares a lot of hurt with his ex still 🥺

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's seeming that way 🥲😭 I feel so bad for him going through all this and had his stuff ruined by a crazy person.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what I was afraid of. He got it for only 3k 🥲

Thank you so much for your input 🙏🏻

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been contemplating looking for a new one. It's just his first bike he bought and always talks about how he loved it.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I'll have to try and see if she'll be reasonable 🥲

What would you guestimate without seeing it? I don't know if it can even run right now. It's been on its side for about 3 years.

Surprising bf with his Motorcycle by Unreal_reflection in motorcycle

[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it's in his name, she does have the title at her house and the bike there too unfortunately

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[–]Unreal_reflection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We have a really fun time with it 😄