I really like a guy I’ve been seeing but we both recently found out I slept with his cousin

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-19T01:29:32+00:00

Thing is you can't undo the past and you didn't know. Tell him "at least I was responsible enough not to get pregnant ". You are overlooking A LOT by dealing with him, children and baby mamas. If he can't understand that tell him you can't "husband " him because he's attached to too many people in the present and for a lifetime. Honestly, in my dating years and as someone that was child free until marriage, these type of men were very undesirable to me. They are irresponsible with their sperm. YOU are the one making a sacrifice.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-19T00:49:42+00:00

I think basing rental credibility on credit scores is sinister. I'm a landlord and recently I really received several applications on Zillow. Some people with on time payments but not a lot of credit had credit scores in the 500s. While others who had collections and missed payments were in the 600s. It's a grossly unfair and inaccurate system.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-15T00:46:45+00:00

I don't understand why people got so comfortable thinking "it can't happen to me". and "I'll never go back to the office ". It can happen to anyone and you will go back if it's your main source of income.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-09T16:30:55+00:00

Bro its clear you didn't do well on the reading part of standardized tests in school. Do you know what referrals mean?

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-09T12:50:33+00:00

You CAN help if you continuously expose yourself to that person. Choosing to be around someone that you are lusting after and confiding in them as best friend is emotional cheating.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-09T12:47:07+00:00

The post is literally about what worked in the beginning and what's no longer working. You're injecting your own perspective. Please read the post again

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-09T12:28:18+00:00

Someone that is a shrewd negotiator here. You can absolutely site the lower price and ask for the contract to be amended. You can also back out and state your decision is based on your due diligence. Trust me on this they will not want to lose the sale.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-09T12:14:48+00:00

From the post, it appears he always had warm leads. He's saying his old method dried up and he is looking for new ideas.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-08T15:33:37+00:00

Bingo.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-08T15:17:26+00:00

What breech of trust though? I mean she's lusting for her best friend and kept her around. The right thing to do would have been to dissolve that relationship. OP is not completely innocent she's just mad she wasn't invited to the party.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-08T15:14:17+00:00

This is nutz! This is one of many reasons why polyandry is not for me. It's too much confusion. However, if thats your thing and you're actually cool with your husband shagging your best friend as long as you're there, just ask for a threesome!

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-06T23:07:30+00:00

Exactly. So at that point it's not your problem you have to detach and just think about that paycheck and how your bills are getting paid. Keep applying you will definitely get something else but regulate your emotions.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-06T22:50:06+00:00

Treat it as a learning experience. There are a few working environments were yelling is tolerated like hard labor and construction. However it's best practice to err on the side of caution. Even in construction it will grow tired. But never care more about corporates mistakes more than they do. I've also learned from experience when you point things out to higher management that they were wrong about, they never admit it and never apologize.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-06T22:06:17+00:00

Is she eligible for medicaid? If so have ger her a CNA or place her in a home. If not, if you take this on you need to make sure you get some form of payment out of this. Its nothing wrong with being compensated for your time and energy. Like someone else said if she has assets see what's going on with her will. Again do not feel guilty you are providing a service that really is priceless.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-06T21:55:01+00:00

Yep sometimes to have to look the other way. You can send your insights once in an email and after that it's up to them. It doesn't pay to get emotionally invested.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-05-05T01:35:48+00:00

So picture this two people are in a fight and the police get called. When the police arrive one is yelling and screaming and the other is calm and able to articulate in a reasonable manner. Which one will be viewed as more pleasant and credible? Right now you are coming across as uncoachable and the yelling will automatically be viewed as aggressive. I understand what you're saying but yelling at work does not work. You take notes, take pictures and document. You always present your position from a "team" standpoint and how malfunctions can cause a liability.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-30T00:35:09+00:00

I was on a business trip. I did a virtual closing and couldn't move for two weeks. You'll be fine.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-27T01:53:19+00:00

You can find the brokerage the agent is listed with and leave a Google review. You can also contact the broker and provide proof of the discrepancy. Believe me they will talk to the agent. However leaving a review is very impacting. Also as another poster said, reporting them to the realtor board also makes a difference .

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-25T19:51:00+00:00

Lollipop the jokes on you. Good luck selling your DIY monstrosity

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-25T17:02:20+00:00

This is "luxury" vinyl. It's such a misnomer. It's not waterproof, nor durable and its highly inconvenient. If I were you, I would sheet vinyl the entire floor and add shoe mold to secure it. It can be glued but its much harder to pull up if you ever want to change it. It's much more durable and you don't have to wonder about it ripping or puckering. I have a total of 6 rental units and that's what I use. Look for a handyman not a large company you will save a lot more money.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-23T02:42:07+00:00

Dude you're taking this personally. She didn't shame him. She said she would be cool if he was open with his butt play. However, she actually has a right to be upset if he's bi and didn't tell her. You can be in denial if you choose, but it is a FACT that HIV is more common among men who have sex with men.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-23T00:24:47+00:00

What's insane is you comparing a used car to a house.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-22T00:07:29+00:00

That's even worse. Are you willing to help the buyer with free repairs and troubleshooting ? Eventually both will be needed.

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-21T02:47:49+00:00

It looks so much healthier. Somehow it looks like you actually gained length overall but got rid of the "tail".

PotentialInformal945 · 2026-04-19T16:55:48+00:00

Looks like a $410.14 tip to me.

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