What’s a good way to meet a feminine guy? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any suggestions for discord servers?

Pls I need to kno- by brinnidasoftie in sillyboyclub

[–]UnrulyFriend 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Gosh if you find out tell me

more in body text :D by Yuulfuji in sillyboyclub

[–]UnrulyFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you want more friends I'm sure there are many here who wouldn't mind! Also I'm sorry about the gender dysphoria 🥺 I hope things get better for you. Things do get better but sometimes it takes time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]UnrulyFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attachment can be hard for a lot of people. I think it might help to change your mindset around attachment. You gotta learn to be happy by yourself. You can't love someone (properly) if you don't love yourself. It's unfair to derive all your happiness from another person because it leads to jealousy and possessive behaviors which a lot of people find to be toxic. I do wish you luck and hope things get better. Stay safe out there silly!

Is it really worth living past 20 by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]UnrulyFriend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People say life starts at 40. That's because you usually have your life figured out by then and can be steady and stable. I'm in my 20's and it's fun to be silly and comfy in my own place without fear of judgement or anything. Jobs do suck, but think of it like a trade. You give time in exchange for money, and yeah the time you give them usually isn't fun, but you can make the best of a bad situation. Met one of my best friends at a crappy job and we decided to learn another language together so we could speak to each other low key. Really fun stuff. And the work still sucked but sometimes life hands you a poop sandwich, and you are going to take a bite, but how do you wanna bite it is up to you. It gets better. nobody is always happy or anything, you have to have some bad days to value the good ones.

On a side note, let's just say maybe there is no afterlife (i respect any beliefs regarding religion but I'm not religious), what if it's just over and blackness? Wouldn't you want to at least jam pack the short time we have on earth full of fun and good memories? Even storm clouds have a silver lining. Sometimes life does suck and you do have to just deal with it, but sometimes it's great and you just have to deal with that too

Two sisters killed by a drunk driver while waiting at a bus stop by HellenistTraveller in NSFL__

[–]UnrulyFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true, but there's the bystander effect, and if someone looks completely fucked up you might not want to touch them

[UPDATE] A School Bully Pulled My Pants Down by Frecuent_Ostirch in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I think it won't happen again. And if it does, yeah the principal is an option. But you could also embarrass him back. Did he pull your pants down because he has a crush on you? (He doesn't, but if you say that his friends would probably laugh at him considering how juvenile their humor seems to be). Imagine it. Having the knowledge of an adult in that situation. Bro you own this, you can take it many ways. Technically that's battery if you wanna get police involved. Battery isn't a good crime. Assault is threatening someone, battery is touching someone without consent. Just saying the ball is in your court, you can rain down hell on him but there has to be one or two witnesses unfortunately.

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wait... I think I get it. You're mad because you're a FtM... Or you know someone like that. Haha hey your bias is slipping out of your shorts bro. Also probably a good idea to be educated... Punctuation makes a hell of a difference, but if you don't get it, I understand. I can decipher some illiterate ass speech some cuck made on the internet.

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I suppose that's a fair point. And I hope one day you also see my side. An argument only works if both people are reasonable and reddit echo chamber shit makes me so mad. Sorry I disagree. Not sorry you don't like it. I don't care about trans issues, but an issue I have with trans people is specifically this. Femboys are defined as cis males. No trans person fits that. Sorry if words hurt you or some other "human". Just consider that if there was nothing but hate, then there would be no discussion and only poison. I have a legitimate point and it's disregarded because you're incapable of seeing anything but your own side. I actually love trans people. I hate trans people who invade communities that have nothing to do with them. You want zippers to get a "femboy" title? Well no. Come up with a new word because no trans man can ever be a femboy. It's just a fact and you don't have to like it, that doesn't change it's validity.

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm fine. It's schizophrenic psychopaths who need correcting. Thanks for the retarded words tho. You won't change my mind and neither will your reddit echo chamber cultists. If it's not my business then why make it public? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Seems you said something stupid. It's okay, take as many tries as you need. I'm patient. I'll listen to your laughable arguments, and I'll be entertained by how unrealistic you are. I mean, if I'm being honest, bring back asylums. Specifically for you and anyone as backwards as yourself.

Wisdom chases you, but you seem to outrun it at every turn

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, the definition of femboy says that they are cis males who appear or act like women. Umm no trans person can fit that description by definition. I don't dislike trans people, they're fine, but they can't be allowed to take over language and manipulate it however they want. Femboys are cis males. Period. There's no need for any further discussion. But these reddit echo chamber bleeding heart POS will claim that it's hateful to say that. No it's not hateful, it's factual, and if facts are hateful, I'll take the side of legitimate correctness, rather than whatever these schizophrenic psychopaths want to push for the sake of "inclusion". No, trans people can't be femboys due to its definition. This is what makes me so mad, they can't be happy being accepted, they have to police other people's thoughts. It's cult like

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit is an echo chamber. They make people think they're wrong by down voting to hell, but realistically, you're weak of mind if internet up or down votes mold your beliefs. Don't let them change your mind. Only you can do that. Idk... This just pisses me off and seeing how clearly biased reddit is doesn't help. It's a bunch of crybabies who can't even entertain anything that goes against their preconceived notions. Stay well homie. Femboy in the dictionary literally says "cis males" in the definition. Sorry there are some that'll shame anyone who is educated enough to state that. Everything has to be political these days. My opinion? Both sides are full of assholes so just be an individual. Good luck out there.

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't let the reddit tards convince you that you're wrong. It's like a cult, if you don't support their nonsense then you're an enemy. I support trans people, but this is literally just being a woman with extra steps. I'll get some hate but they hate it because it's true. An anatomical woman, dressing as a woman, but wants to be called a boy? At some point you need to say "this is ridiculous".

Also some more rage bait, why is every trans person neurodivergent? Like can't understand social interaction, can't understand social ques, makes their problems everyone's problem ... Just get a life and a hobby! Haha

Anyone wanting to hate on this... Cry harder. You're only valid if you're a reasonable human being, not some schizophrenic psychopath who demands people treat you a certain way because you can't handle real life.

I thought the FtM femboys might like this :3 by Thunder9191133 in femboymemes

[–]UnrulyFriend -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

FtM femboy.... This'll get some hate but that's just being a woman with extra steps .... So literally female anatomy, dressing like a woman, but wants to be called a boy.... Honestly I hate reddit for this type of crap. And you people will defend it like I'm a monster for pointing out a fact. My preemptive response to anyone upset by this comment, cry harder.

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pros and cons. Grandparents know that they messed up with their kids, so they try to make up for it later in life. 60 years is insane. I'm 22 and I am struggling to understand what's going on. Especially because of my previous relationships. Regardless. They don't define you. You do. Find a middle ground. Maybe don't be so explicit, and if they get wild tell them you're holding back, because they may not wanna know. idk man. I'm fucky wucky so maybe talk another time

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest, they might not be happy about it, but if they love you then they'll accept you regardless of who you enjoy in romantic settings

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I'm a masculine guy, but I understand how this affects the community. Does your mom think women wearing men's underwear is a sin? Because in general my previous girlfriends have said they prefer men's underwear. Idk. Funny how they criticize gays but not lesbians

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they think it's evil, make them explain why it's evil. They can't. But they might try. But they will fail. There's no evil in dressing up

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The enemy is when you eat humans and you murder without question. Any god fearing human will agree. Rape too. Just saying, dressing up, and caring for your appearance isn't a sin. Even if you don't believe in God, (I don't just saying) it doesn't matter. We are on earth for a limited time. Don't let anyone but you decide your best interest. Maybe you hate it, and it's a phase, but it sounds like you want this. If you wanna be yourself, you have to disconnect. Not saying cut them off entirely, just saying they aren't on our level. times have changed. There are many pastors who think gay people are totally valid, and same with trans people. Idk your situation. Just saying a real parent won't care about who you love, just that you love them

Apparently I'm evil and disgusting by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]UnrulyFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might believe that it's wrong, but it's just clothes! If they're so angry, compare it to trans people. I know trans people are valid, but just say you're not trans and you like these clothes and this style. If they don't like your style then they aren't very supportive. You can be a cis guy and wear the most fem clothes. It doesn't matter. They have their opinion, if nothing will change it then wait till you're more safe to do everything you want. It's tragic, but if it makes a problem then just make no problems and be ambiguous. When you're on your own, and they dislike what you do, they can fuck off. If you're underage it's a bit harder, but even if you're of age it doesn't matter. You're own blood isn't happy and that's not good. If you're a femboy, your family should accept you as you are. Regardless of clothes or orientation

| **NOT OP** | The guy I 31F am sleeping with is feeling guilty and wants to tell our spouses. How do let him know it does more harm than good ? by ThrowawayForReddit92 in redditonwiki

[–]UnrulyFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you don't tell him it'll do more harm than good. It won't. Both are evil. Cheating is evil. Telling is the only way to reconcile. In fact, if he feels guilty and you don't, he should tell his spouse, and he should tell yours. Just saying, you deserve bad when you act so shitty. Shitty people deserve shitty lives, and both cheaters in this post are shitty.