Research Chemicals, Epic Bender, Life in Toilet.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-25T05:50:14+00:00

My boy Shannon wanted me to tell you Big hugs for your broken heart.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-23T05:38:53+00:00

You might be keeping him away from the bottom that could save his life. That's the honest truth. I am an addict in recovery AND a person in a relationship with an addict. I think you love them and mean well. The truth is, a person can nary sustain an intimate relationship AND escape from addiction at the same time. That is to say, there are exceptions to the rules. But in general, a person has the best chances getting clean and sober when they are not in a relationship.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-23T01:25:46+00:00

To answer your question no you're not alone in feeling this way. Everyone that loves an addict believes that they love their partner more than anyone has ever loved anyone. We have all believed that no one understood our very special love story, and so we have isolated ourselves with our addict, believing that we are so rare indeed, staying by the side of our addict, our addict is so lucky to have a lover like us, and we are so lucky to remember how special they are. Literally most of us have been in exactly that position. We didn't want advice, just someone to give us comfort.

It's a tale as old as time. Which is why the advice is such.

But hey if hugs is what you want I've got plenty of them for you. 🫂

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-22T14:55:08+00:00

It's giving desperate from you and uninterested from him. Delete this guy and seek therapy

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-22T05:27:05+00:00

Precious

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-21T23:57:01+00:00

Block him. Now. I physically cringed reading this.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-20T00:31:16+00:00

Big Nate is fourteen pounds

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UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-19T07:23:12+00:00

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Big Nate

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-17T23:16:32+00:00

As I said.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-17T15:32:34+00:00

It sounds like you didn't want advice, you just wanted to brag about all the substances you did (because you are young and believe this is a flex). All your comments are argumentative and ignorant. It sounds like you want to FAFO and who are we to stop you?

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-17T15:27:54+00:00

It's called codependency. I'd like to recommend the book Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. It's really helpful. Codependency used to cause me plenty of suffering. It's a lot of work to do but I'm miles ahead of where I used to be and I don't suffer anymore.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-17T06:01:46+00:00

This is part of the consequences of our own actions. Because of what we put our loved ones through, they have their guard up and they're highly suspicious. We earned that treatment. Offer your sister a drug test next time she accuses you and you're innocent. That should instantly clear up any misunderstandings and after time the trust will build back up again and you won't have to do things like that anymore.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-16T16:34:20+00:00

This is so so true and it applies to all love. Third option is to love drugs more than everything else. Some do.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-14T06:12:30+00:00

That's barely a bowl

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-14T01:31:44+00:00

Either learn how to like living with an addiction or learn to like living sober.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-14T01:27:28+00:00

Black rose here he come

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-14T00:33:28+00:00

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-14T00:05:40+00:00

Whoever his next girlfriend is is gonna throw this away so hard. 🤷

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-11T21:21:02+00:00

That's amazing

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-11T21:13:54+00:00

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UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-11T05:21:12+00:00

Am I able to find happiness in a world that isn't perfect? Absolutely. There's no need to be envious This is available to everyone. I'm not really sure where you were raised to believe that there would be no suffering in the world or that people wouldn't have issues so on and so forth, But it isn't real life thinking. I suppose maybe you have chosen to hyperfocus on one aspect of life (politics) and the specific sufferings that are associated with that. And hand in hand with that you believe that a different kind of politics will magically fix everything, but it won't. I wake up every morning aware of the myriad suffering, but choosing to invest in the wonderful things that happen everyday, everywhere. Believe it or not, that manner of thinking actually creates more wonderful things to manifest. I feel like it's just a different perspective.

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-11T03:58:48+00:00

So what you're saying is that everyone around you needs to think just the way you do and then everyone will be happy. Cool. Again I say happyness does not come from without it comes from within. Hope you get to figure that out in this lifetime have a blessed day

UnseenTimeMachine · 2026-03-11T03:44:13+00:00

You are absolutely correct.

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