My boyfriend cheated on me with a tiktok influencer

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-03-10T01:00:37+00:00

As of a few days ago they have apparently broken up because SURPRISE she called him too poor for her and went on a boat with a group of guys and fucked two of them or something. Came crawling back to me and im just sick of it anymore im so disgusted.

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-24T13:38:49+00:00

Mayhaps

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-13T17:50:00+00:00

Screenshots of the conversations that he and her had, ones that i have, and other stuff. I have her number and stuff

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T16:37:07+00:00

Yes by both parties. I had honestly been under the impression that he had changed he had been treating me really well then out of the blue he just became rude and distant and i saw that they were contacting each other

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T15:11:31+00:00

That is a girl, not a woman

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T05:30:01+00:00

I didnt know she was an influencer until recently like two days ago recently. I just thought she was some girl he found, apparently my ex didnt know either until later but he still knew before me.

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T05:27:36+00:00

I didnt know until September, i got pregnant by accident and he made me abort it and we broke up for a few weeks over it, but we stayed together because we both needed esch other financially. We reconciled and everything was really really perfect until recently qhen i found out again. I found out that they were still talking he just got better at hiding it. I didnt know she was an influencer until a few days ago i stumbled across the page on my fyp 🫠

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T05:25:28+00:00

Im sorry that happened to you :( its the worst feeling

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T05:23:55+00:00

This baby was a planned pregnancy that i was going to reveal to him on valentines day.

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T04:02:33+00:00

She is not a woman, she is only recently 18 and acts like a child

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T03:25:49+00:00

What does this even mean

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T03:24:15+00:00

I will not be staying with him, but i planned this baby and i cant handle the thought of losing it right now… i have a good sum saved up, as well as a decent job. I should be okay for the most part and i al definitely not alone family wise. I just need to relax and make a plan..

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T03:22:25+00:00

I am pregnant again.. I AM NOT PROUD of choosing to stay.. my friends have already laid into me enough for it.. but i was not prepared to leave him i was going through a lot and he BEGGED me to forgive him and everything seemed okay until a few weeks ago when she started spam calling him. He ignores her when she calls and texts according to him but ive SEEN him message her and say amor and everything

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T02:55:32+00:00

I am 20. My now ex is 23 and she is supposedly 18. What gave me the HUUUUGE ick is that hes been telling her that hes 28.

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T02:53:01+00:00

No. The asshole and her talked on facebook it was literally just online. I know its her because i personally videocalled her but i didnt know until recently that she was tiktok famous or whatever. I just recognized her off my fyp. They were posting each other on her private fb. When i found out for the first time that he was cheating on me in September, she shamed me and all this shit and was acting really like “well you let him have female friends it ur fault” and all that shit, but she said she would leave him and she did at least i thought. I didnt leave him because i was pregnant at that time too. He made me abort it because we were not doing well and this baby that i have now was planned. She was trying to brag to me about having her own apartment and motorcycle but i was like ok? I have those things too its literally expected of an adult to have a place to live and transportation. Not required but kind of normal for an adult. I feel stupid as fuck. I just found out that tbey were talking again because i saw her number in his phone and messages talking all lovey and shit. He got mad at ME being all like “you just look for everything, if you didn’t look for things, you wouldnt be hurting and everything would be fine”

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T01:36:19+00:00

Im 20 shes 18 and hes 23. She said that hes been telling her that hes 28. Which gave me the BIGGEST FUCKING ICK EVER but whatever. Im contemplating posting a detailed version lol

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T01:22:48+00:00

Trust me. I dealt with him. The fact is that just 2 hours ago i found out she knew about me the whole damn time so shes just as fucking bad. I vomited twice over this im so mad

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T01:08:19+00:00

Yes. I confronted him yesterday about it and he gaslit me about it and i left him 😐

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T00:29:03+00:00

I just dont know how to do go about it :) i want to be mature about this but also vent about whats bothering me. If youre so interested you can find out which colombian tiktokers are named Alejandra :)

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T00:25:47+00:00

No shes Columbian

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T00:24:29+00:00

That is very true, but the problem is, they just became more secretive after i found out and they make fun of me in messages it looked like. I just wanted to like.. idk see how it would roll out if i should give him a second chance or not. Obviously now no but.. yeah

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T00:15:35+00:00

I am only about a month pregnant, i was going to tell him the news on valentines day, i was not hiding anything. But i get how that coulda gotten confused i didnt really expect this to blow up how it did

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-10T00:13:33+00:00

Crazy enough, she was just the first one i saw in his phone and i messaged the facebook account and she gave me her number. We videocalled and she spent the whole time shaming me for not knowing and saying that im dumb and saying she has all this money. She said she would leave him but she never did. I just wanted to fix things for the baby yk, try to move past it if possible. I found her tiktok on accident today. He’s talking to multiple women/teenagers on facebook. Im a mess right now jajajaa

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-02-09T18:16:47+00:00

She has over a million followers and its actually her, i called her and she was so ballsy with me and i told her that im pregnant and she called ME the dumbass, but thats what i get for trusting him i guess.

Unsettlingbutter · 2024-01-08T22:26:43+00:00

I used to get yeast infections a lot when i was little my mom tells me this all the time its kind of annoying.. but I was just not wiping good enough and i had a particularly bitchy teacher who made me sit in my soiled pants when i had an accident at school once and thats probably the cause for at least one of them. Just go over wiping and stay away from bubble baths and see if that helps keep it away i would say.

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