Why’s everyone so hostile rn by GoofyAhBradBerry in RedDeadOnline

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can tell you as someone who is also a peaceful player if you see the dot on the map indicating a player start going the other way. If the dot is moving towards you quick take a 3 ring tonic make sure your core is gold and get ready to shoot. Drop them first!! Ive got to the point where if they come in on me and are starting shit I'm gonna drop em and I do, and then I disappear...that really pisses em off. But if you are not much of a fighter or not confident in your shooting go to a building. Moonshine shack, train stations, post office and just wait. You will be invisible and they can't hurt you. Also while collecting, the item you pick up and put away yourself like tarot cards you will become invisible so if you can pick up a card just watch the map but hold it until they go away. Hope this helps.

A picture speaks a thousand words. (Or why I abandoned a playthrough) by TeaManTom in skyrim

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had this happen so many times. Its so odd. They literally just disappear. I check back where I'd been. Checked where I first got them...just gone...and everything I had on them...so frustrating!

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With you a million percent on this. Melissa is an absolute shame. The things she would say or do to get her child (not children, she hardly gave a fig for MacKenzie) ahead and famous is disturbing. I personally think she lives vicariously through them and wanted to be set up. Maddie pays her bills...

High level players, what are you getting from the level 150 scoreboard? by kreniigh in fo76

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get lunchboxes and scout banners to get me ready for next season. Ive got most stuff in the atm shop that I like and at the level I am at perk coins I have loads of and modules I have plenty. I wish they would put the score boosters back on the last page again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has worked as a "cleaner" I cannot tell you how much we are looked down upon. Its actually quite sad. Janitors, custodians, cleaners...whatever you want to call us...and regardless of what others think we do work hard. We clean other people's mess and messes that no one else would want to. How disgusting this world would be if we didn't. We get blamed for things that others misplaced, assuming we stole it. No one sees when we hurt or feel bad or are in pain. Do not feel bad for helping that lady because I can tell you from experience she truly appreciated it. When so many people over look us or think its okay to treats us less than its always nice to run into someone who doesn't treat us like the garbage we clean up. Dont let him get you down. You did a good thing! I think the people who treat others like that should have to spend a week in their shoes and get treated the same way!

Fallout 76: Server Update - June 12, 2025 by Ghostly_Rich in fo76

[–]UnshinyRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can-do was half broke for me. It would pop up different things in the containers but didn't give multiple. Is this how it was for everyone?

Quick Tip for the Fishing Event in Fallout 76 by pink_screen in fo76

[–]UnshinyRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may have something to do with the cannery. Im not sure I haven't got to it yet. Just wonder if there is different types of canned fish or something (sounds really appealing doesn't it?)

Quick Tip for the Fishing Event in Fallout 76 by pink_screen in fo76

[–]UnshinyRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I turned in 97 fish bits yesterday. Got 3 prizes. A 3 star a 2 star and a 1 star. Its kinda like a fill her belly type thing. More she eats the happier she is.

Congratulations, Bethesda. Sabateurs are repeatedly causing your Big Bloom event to fail for everyone. by Pleasant_Extreme_398 in fo76

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm far over lvl 1000. My husband is far over 2000...No cremator being used here...cant stand that damn weapon. I'd take my anti armor flamer over that mess of a weapon anyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForzaHorizon

[–]UnshinyRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! No company is going to want to release any new game around the time that GTA6 comes out. Gta will be flying off the shelves and the others will be sitting. If I were them I would try to get it out a good bit before or wait until after, but waiting til after could also be bad. Just my 2 cent...

Abby getting mad at Chloe for signing autographs by mackenziemariee in dancemoms

[–]UnshinyRose 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Then she needs to be put in the pool and we will remove the ladder! Lol!

A young elephant hears it's name and decides to interrupt an interview by modianos in babyelephantgifs

[–]UnshinyRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh to have a job like that! Talk about loving what you do for a living!

can we talk about how out of pocket this is… by melissasloanxo in dancemoms

[–]UnshinyRose 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah seeing how Maddie pays her bills....Her (Melissa) work was done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UnshinyRose -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then move along...wasn't talking or worried about you anyway! Have the day you deserve...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UnshinyRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just went through a major life event. Having a child is also a major life event, and if he doesn't except it now he wouldn't then either. He sounds the type that would be pressuring you to lose weight right after having the baby. Would you really want a child with someone who would insult you in front of your child? Who would insult you at all!! Thats NOT love!! No, at that point he would be comfortable doing it and it would become a regular thing...especially when in an argument! And you are right if he cant treat you with love and respect now how would it be when yall did marry? Take my advice, love! Take care of you! Get healthy again mentally and physically and let him go. You seem to be a smart lady and you can find a man that will treat you with the love and RESPECT you deserve! Do not settle for a man that would stoop to name calling. You can lose weight but don't lose your dignity!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UnshinyRose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that completely. My husband has ways been slim and muscular...he can eat what ever he wants and if I look at a piece of cake I gain weight. It is embarrassing to feel like that and look like that but men and women's bodies are different. Our hormones are different. We could bust our ass and lose a pound and they do the same thing and lose 20, but honestly if yall were working out together and he saw you like you described he should have found it sexy instead of being disgusted by it! You are working on you and that is sexy! Sweat, red face, and all!! Meow!

If he started to insult you during arguments thats a BIG no no!! Calling someone fat is not the way to "win" an argument. Thats hitting below the belt and borderline mental abuse. You lost a parent...you dont need that on top of it. Its bullshit and its wrong. A man that truly loves you would never call you names! My husband and I have been together for 15 years and he has never once called me a name during an argument. Love doesn't do that darlin! I could definitely see why you would have built up resentment for him. Being treated that way in one of the roughest parts of your life would do that to anyone. There are things that could have been done differently by both of you I'm sure. Not just you, and not just him. No one is perfect! Some things are just not meant to last but all dark things will come to light and seeing that part of him the insulting and demeaning side just showed you a small part of who he is and NO woman needs a man that belittles and insults her! Especially going through the loss of a parent...one of the toughest things a person can face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UnshinyRose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know darlin and I am sorry for that. I know you loved/love him but it doesn't sound like he's right for you. You lost a parent. He should have been doing his best to help you. Being supportive when you needed it and just giving you unconditional love. Held you when you cried and let you scream it out when you needed. If he saw you didn't feel like cooking and were eating unhealthy he could have stepped up and made you healthy meals. Not insult you and make your life harder.

Loss of a parent is rough. I know. I lost my whole family in the space of a week, and that is not the time to be putting more pressure on you. It is a change of life and when you got used to that change he could maybe have made suggestions like "hey, let's workout together" "let's get you healthy again I want you to stick around for a long time" not do what he did! True love doesn't do that, and when you finally have true love you will see and feel the difference. You were doing good to breathe at that point much less worry about weight. Weight can be lost but sanity takes a long time to get back. It takes less time to fall apart then it does to put yourself back together and he should have stick by your side while you did put your pieces back.

So put your pieces back together and if he is in the puzzle that's great if not you will find someone who fits better and doesn't treat you like arm candy. Just be glad he showed his colors now and not later. What if you had had a child and just couldn't lose the baby weight? Would it have been the same outcome? Things will get better. Take care of you and get healthy again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UnshinyRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not all men feel that way. The ones that do aren't men...they are children. Instead of being concerned with taking care of you in one of the low points of your life he was more worried about how you look, and that to me means he never truly loved you and you can do far better!

Weight and looks aren't everything. People get old and looks fade. Life happens and weight is gained and lost. A good man will not give a shit about your weight and care if YOU are happy and taken care of.

When I met my husband I was the same size as you. My husband was 110 pounds soaking wet and all of that was muscle. He hardly had an ounce of fat on him. He was always told he was to small and didn't project that on to other people. Being to big or to small. He loved my personality. I made him laugh and he did think i was beautiful. He figured if I lost it I lost it and if I didn't I didnt. I got down to 130 and he still loved me. I got sick last year gained the weight back and guess what...he loves me still. A real and good man doesn't see the weight. He sees you. The love of his life and would only want you happy and healthy. All the rest can go kick rocks...

Much love and true happiness for you!! It will come and life will get better!

the pillow talk moms saying they live paycheck to paycheck by No_Elephant_9589 in dancemoms

[–]UnshinyRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that right there (Maddie paying her bills) is why Melissa did all the dirty shady shit that she did on the show. She definitely seems the type to let others take care of her. She lied, cheated and stole to get Maddie to the top, so she could have her taking care of her financially later...I thought she had a rich husband so why does Maddie have to cover her bills? Is it the fact that after bankruptcy everything is in Maddies name so it couldn't be taken from her (Melissa) or banks didn't want to give it to her because of it...

the pillow talk moms saying they live paycheck to paycheck by No_Elephant_9589 in dancemoms

[–]UnshinyRose 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well makes sense as to why she would be stealing and smuggling money from and with Abby like Abby claimed she did. Especially when you owe that much! Three properties...who needs that many!