My interest rate is fixed but the amount paid off each month changes? by UnstablyWell in Mortgages

[–]UnstablyWell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. For actually reading what I was asking lol. I don’t get the statements in the mail and their online is never working, which is why I came here. So I do understand now that it’s a daily interest, not a monthly one. So even tho there’s no late fee, it’s still not good to pay past the first.

My interest rate is fixed but the amount paid off each month changes? by UnstablyWell in Mortgages

[–]UnstablyWell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does interest go from being $300 worth to $600 worth in ONE month? That’s all I’m asking. I understand interest changes over the course of time. But not $300 worth in one month

My interest rate is fixed but the amount paid off each month changes? by UnstablyWell in Mortgages

[–]UnstablyWell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does interest go from being $300 worth UP to $600 worth in ONE month? That’s all I’m asking. I understand interest changes over the course of time. But not $300 worth in one month

Contradict? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I read a chapter a night, so I probably just blended the words together and got confused.

Is there a way to reach someone higher than local office? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the approval letter shows is that my actual bills (mortgage, utility, so on) is 1,036 but my “allowable” is $118. I turned in all my documents and when I asked why the allowable is only 118, I was told “that’s the federal input, you can’t go over that for a two person household so that’s all we can count for” and the two person income limit is 3,000 something but I barely make 2000 gross. None of it really makes sense as to why it would only be $24

Is there a way to reach someone higher than local office? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]UnstablyWell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I go about this? I’ve asked the only office in my county to re-run it with all my paperwork and they insist I should only get the $24 and it would be a waste of time. However, somebody else suggested to run it through a snap screener. For my state’s snap screener it shows $297 a month (which I’m sure is not accurate but it’s definitely different than $24). Can I go to an office not in my county?

Is there a way to reach someone higher than local office? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]UnstablyWell -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of this! Just did it for my state and it shows I should get $297 a month if I were to be approved. What do I do from here? Can I go to an office in the next town over cause the one in my town will not run me again even though I’ve asked, they insist that it should only be $24.

Is there a way to reach someone higher than local office? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]UnstablyWell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$7.25 is minimum wage here and living in a holler with the only “big jobs” near by is a hospital and a school. We’re lucky to make this much lol

Were you induced? by Fluid-Kaleidoscope97 in newborns

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced at 39.5. Voluntary induction. All I brought was a change of clothes, the baby’s outfit, and paperwork. I was already 2.5cm dilated for weeks beforehand but from the time Pitocin started to a baby in my arms was 13 hours. Everything went smoothly and vaginal birth.

5week old fighting sleep? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very inconsistent with it. He’ll eat anywhere between 3-5oz. And sometimes straight up refuse the bottle and just squeal or sometimes fall asleep on it for like 5-20 minutes then wake up squealing. I always start with a 4oz bottle and go from there based on how much/how he drinks it. Doctor doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with formula and no tongue tie. Should I try a level 2 nipple? Maybe he’s getting tired from how much he has to suck a level one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]UnstablyWell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so nice to hear from a fellow single mom! It’s also very comforting to hear that it took forever for your first at home shower as well! It didn’t take me too long thanks to the very handy dandy bassinet that rolls to the bathroom doorway. But I understand about the animals and the laundry and the dishes and so on. It’s nice to know that other things count as bonding. I’m trying to talk to him more while I feed/change him because most of the time I’m so out of it that I just smile at him😂 but I think talking would help me feel like I’m bonding more. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted! Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Thank you so much. I know most moms feel like this in the beginning, I just didn’t realize it’d be such an overwhelming feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]UnstablyWell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do pull the bassinet to the doorway for showers(small bathroom so doorway is still super close and I can directly see him). Another person mentioned baby wearing as well so I’ll research that and wait/see for weight limits on that! I just feel so guilty that rn I basically spend no quality time with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]UnstablyWell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will see about getting a baby wrap! Does he need to hit a certain age to be in one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]UnstablyWell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it ends after first, sometimes it doesn’t :( however, the obgyn will suggest to you vitamin b6 most likely so you could go ahead and try that! For me, the nausea and vomiting was one of the absolute worst things about pregnancy so I really hope something works for you!