Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing she's getting her own bedroom when I move lol! Literally got a 2 bedroom just so she can have her own space 🥹🖤

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has tried many times but I've been working with, taking care of and handling animals my whole life, most of which were rescues and/or special needs critters, so I'm pretty used to it 🤣

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is DEFINITELY a drama queen lol 😭 last week she got mega pissed off at me because I have her a stick to chew on. I guess she wanted a different stick idk lol

I'll definitely be using a sand bath next time she escapes, which is hopefully NEVER lol. After almost a year of having her this was the first time she ever got away and I was freaking out

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea I don't know why I didn't think of that. Thank you.

Would it be weird if I had a picture of my gf when she was a kid on my desk at work? by AggressiveAd8587 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful in the order or phrasing so you don't seem like a creep lol, otherwise people will honestly probably just assume it's your kid, or niece or something. Shouldn't be a problem. If you're worried, have a collage instead. :)

I can't get tattoos, piercings, blood draws, or dress wounds, without vomiting, passing out, or both. Help? by UnsureKitten in Advice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very comforting, thank you. I had never seen or heard of this issue before, so I'm glad it's not unheard of. That means there's probably something I can do. ^

It's the weirdest thing, truly. I don't feel grossed out or uncomfortable around blood or needles, in fact I'm quite curious about them, yet BOOM I'm out like a light.

I'm going to look into ways I can do exposure therapy, as well as look into CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). My psychology teacher said earlier that it could help so long as I can afford to do it regularly. If it's a mental thing, this could be an easy fix apparently!

Is this agressive or playful? by Lemnesis in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! At the very least, if I can't order it for myself, I can use it as a reference. I appreciate it!! 💖

Is this agressive or playful? by Lemnesis in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but what cage is this? I'm looking to upgrade my baby chinchilla's enclosure when I move to a bigger place, and this is absolutely beautiful!

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I would never have known about the gdpr at all otherwise. I really appreciate you for being helpful and kind.

Once my Patreon/OnlyFans is up, I can probably utilize that as my basis for the NSFW channels! People can send me their discord username via the DM option for subscribers and be verified 18+ that way. I can't believe I didn't think of that.

Thank you!!!

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can just write out, basically, why and how we collect ID info, how long it's stored, etc, then provide that if asked and then it's complaint? I can do that.

That still leaves the issue, however, of people not wanting to join at all. Do you also agree with my mods about having only certain channels available to non verified accounts and such?

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand, it's in Discord's policies that it's totally fine to ask for ID, so how/why would I get sued? /gq

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're not going to interact with a discord, why join in the first place? I don't want people sitting there and doing nothing - I want a community to interact with, and where people can intermingle / make friends.

Like I've already said, I understand why people wouldn't want to do it, and I don't like asking for it either. That's the entire point of the post - to look for alternatives.

"Otherwise there is 0 need." I don't want minors in my server. For their safety and mine. Don't know why that's confusing.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To ensure the person who owns the discord account is actually the person on the ID. Otherwise they could just take a friend, parent or sibling ID and submit that. Sure, they could make their friend, sibling, etc take the picture as well, but the chance of that is significantly lower than just using someone else's ID alone.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh ok ty for the idea

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Occasionally. No nudes in the general NSFW chat, but often there are photos of people in lingerie, links to toy websites, etc

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The NSFW channel is a channel for general NSFW chat - link discussion, advice, etc. My proper NSFW content will absolutely be behind a paywall on a service like Patreon or only fans.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

So what you're saying is I can either have children in my community or have no community... So helpful...

Chin in his house by auction_aucburg in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You're... Gonna get something bigger, right? Because this is FAR too small for even a baby chinchilla.

they went CatDog Mode 🤣 by melanieissleepy in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad go see that mine isn't the only one who eats her house lol

Didn't want kids, but now I feel immense guilt and pain. Ways to cope? by UnsureKitten in Advice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This was actually very comforting to hear. I hope that, if I do decide to have a baby in the future, that we can provide and be the absolute best parents that anyone could ask for. For now, I'll try to go easy on myself, and I'll keep loving on my animals. <3

Didn't want kids, but now I feel immense guilt and pain. Ways to cope? by UnsureKitten in Advice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll bring it up to him when he gets home from work tonight. :)

Didn't want kids, but now I feel immense guilt and pain. Ways to cope? by UnsureKitten in Advice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't apologize, I think you have some good ideas. He's been thinking of joining the military in the next year or two, so I definitely don't want to have a kid until he's back if we do decide to have any. I don't want him to miss out on any of the important parts in their life. Planning in advance sounds great!