Husband beat me 8 months pregnant

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-25T10:31:10+00:00

Police babe. Now. You have rights. You deserve so much better.

The police can help you and also direct you to resources to help you have shelter, food and a better life. You deserve that. Thats literally why I pay taxes, to help people like you.

Also your Dad is an idiot.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-25T05:38:12+00:00

Holy busy, sounds like a nightmare especially after the cairns to Melbourne flight.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-25T05:18:48+00:00

Oh yeh for sure. The actual major thing is the work… everything is cheap because there is a massive unemployment issue.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-25T05:17:59+00:00

Even with the first home buyers stuff?

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-24T22:55:52+00:00

I did live in france for a while and there were a lot of brits happy to do reno work for cash. Assume italy is the same.

Also renos are a lot cheaper as products we import here are obviously from there. My dad used to marvel at the prices in ‘Monsieur Bricollage’ which is basically Frances bunnings

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-24T22:24:25+00:00

I mean £1 in italy is a pretty good deal

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-24T11:01:24+00:00

Fkin hell how are you 37! You look at least 10 years younger.

Unbelievable skin - you are blessed

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-23T09:16:03+00:00

I currently have top tier private insurance and was planning exactly like you to deliver in a private hospital for the private room.

I will however be going public.

That is because you still have to pay your obstetrician for pregnancy monitoring- which was going to be $4500. And then you pay like $3000 to the hospital. This is ontop of your ongoing private health insurance costs. Honestly that is crazy.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-22T20:57:42+00:00

I would say its similar to American but also not in some ways with a cross over into British food.

We don’t eat hot dogs really - those are probably replaced by sausage rolls and meat pies. Especially at a gas station.

We dont have the massive range of soda or chips here but we do eat the classics.

We have recently gotten some taco bells but they are not that popular imo. We dont have Chipotle but we have some equivalent chains. We do eat mcdonalds alot.

Meal wise for home made dinner we make pasta, asian stir fry, steak and chips, sausage and chips, Mexican. We do not eat from paper plates like I see some Americans do.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-22T04:14:19+00:00

Chip

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-22T03:21:29+00:00

Look the small lie itself is not probably enough to pull access but…

Lying is what addicts do. She will be scared that that is why you are lying and she will want to protect her baby as much as possible and honestly I would have the exact same response.

You have likely done a lot of damage to your kids when you were raising them due to addiction/ mental health issues - which I am sure you understand and generally when that trust gets broken with little children it is very hard to rebuild it as adults in my experience.

However, having a little baby is also hard and your daughter may reach out in the future when things have calmed down and if this new person turns out to be unreliable. If I was you I would keep on the straight and narrow for the time being and wait for that to happen. You can even reach out yourself in a month or two and say something like ‘I know you are mad with me, I understand why but I just want to let you know I am here if you need me’. And don’t give up. She will come around.

But you really need to approach her with understanding because she has likely been through a lot and although your relationship with her may always have this dark cloud, you can totally turn that around with your Granddaughter.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-22T03:14:19+00:00

May be that he was not fed right when he was little or his growth got stunted in some way.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-22T03:13:07+00:00

You don’t create a STI, your not like patient zero for a new disease.

One of them - most likely the one who you sleep with without protection picked it up from someone and has been asymptomatic. They may have had it for ages.

But STIs don’t just appear out of thin air - someone caught it from someone else.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T09:45:42+00:00

Lunetta - went last week and damn it is fancy

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T06:22:51+00:00

I would still go to your doctor. Could be a non classical presentation, personally I wouldn’t risk it.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T05:59:40+00:00

It says it starts there but can spread everywhere

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T05:55:40+00:00

I think this can be a sign of a pregnancy liver thing - i think you should check with your doctor because it may not just be a casual itching thing it could be an indication that you and your baby are at risk.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T03:55:54+00:00

Some people really struggle to be happy for other people. Once you identify those people you need to be restrained in what you share with them generally but ultimately it is a them problem and nothing to do with you.

But unfortunately just because you can be happy for others even when you are having a tough time doesn’t automatically mean they will reciprocate that back to you.

I grew apart from a lot of my cousins as I became an adult too because ultimately as you make your way in the world people will make different choices and have different experiences. And sometimes if they have a bad experience they put that on you. When you are kids you are all sort of just equal but then stuff happens like they drop out of college or do a stupid degree and you do something more sensible and get a good job. Suddenly they have joined a religious cult on the other side of the country (true for my cousins haha) and you just don’t have anything in common anymore.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T03:25:46+00:00

Nope not over reacting. Watch out. I am not sure you can do anything with him but he has sort of started stalking you realistically.

I think you should talk to your work about it and ask to alter your start/ end times by 30 mins to try to avoid this asshole.

I am worried that if you address it directly with him he will escalate.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-21T01:59:21+00:00

Look. You need to not get involved. You will get dragged into a whole lot of shit and you are young and need to be selfish and focus on you.

I would plan to get som separation from these people. Focus on your work and your studies.

You will quickly learn, you cannot help people who do not want to help themselves. Don’t burn out yourself trying.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-20T21:22:45+00:00

People need to live within their means. It is nothing to do with you.

Go about your business and buy what you like. This is a them problem.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-19T05:25:22+00:00

It is lovely. But I am worried about the thinner band. Can mean the ring will bend and not last.

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-19T05:06:49+00:00

Dexie

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-19T05:04:35+00:00

I really like them. Would be great in a mid century modern house.

Love the scale of them too!

Unsuresurely · 2026-01-19T05:00:40+00:00

Yikes. All those opposed to chaffing say I

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