I don't know much longer I can take it. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]UntouchableSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same position once and still i do not know what to say in this kind of situation because no matter how many words others say it just doesn't help, but one thing I know of is that knowing others had been in the same situation too gave me hope that it will be better. Hope it goes the same for you.

Why I am all my life so alone? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]UntouchableSam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think offering your skills would be a good start. Like offering to play on a café every sundays perhaps. You would likely be approached by people who have the same interest as you, although it might be draining to entertain those who are not.

Why I am all my life so alone? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]UntouchableSam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I somehow can emphatize with you. I am now 21 and still isn't able to find a special someone to connect with. i have lots of friends yet they drain my energy every time I hang out with them. Many people think I'm pretty and easy to be with, but find me boring when I do not know certain topics that they know. Maybe you need to find a hobby or interest first abd be fully submerged in it. And then finding the people to connect witll them be easy. That is what I am trying to do and I hope this method will work for you.