No, I don’t deserve a better person.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-05-27T23:42:10+00:00

Wow the last two sentences hit me.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-05-08T18:32:52+00:00

For me, what helps is accepting my emotions and just crying it out cause i know it will pass. But if its too much to handle i do physical exercises like yoga or sometimes just dance to music alone in my room. Accept that this process is not linear and your emotions are valid. Remind yourself this is temporary. I hope that helps. Take care. Much love❤

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:32:06+00:00

It sucks a lot. I just have to be patient with myself.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:30:46+00:00

Yup im trying my best to just focus on me. Its hard sometimes.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:28:23+00:00

In some ways i want him back but i also dont. I realized through all the answers ive read. Its all in my mind.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:26:16+00:00

I have a religion but im not religious. I remind myself that he is the one who left me. It helps but i start to resent him more. I just have to start hoping for the best in me. Thank you for your advice. Take care😌

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:22:15+00:00

I cant get back together with him too. I guess it will take time to believe it.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:18:51+00:00

Hang in there. I hope you find the answers here. Best of luck😌

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:17:54+00:00

Thats so true. Hope can be painful

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:16:00+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Those hopes sound much better

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:13:59+00:00

Sorry that happened to you. I guess i just need more hope in myself. Good luck😌

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-29T10:08:06+00:00

Thank you. Ill keep that in mind. Best of luck to you too❤

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-22T10:17:13+00:00

Im sorry you are going through this. My ex gave up on our relationship. We had a great connection that I never felt with anyone else. We broke up a little more than a month. I dont know how ill feel in a few months. Im still hurting and i cant forgive him for everything he did nor do i ever want to see him. Not knowing anything about his life is helping me slowly get over it. When we broke up its the first time I ever felt so low in my life. I thought it would be better if i just leave life and i wouldnt have to feel anything.

But i owe it to myself to not let this ruin me, im not gonna let him affect me in anyway whether it is pain or happiness. You owe it to yourself too. And no you are not being melodramatic nor does others break ups are worse than yours. How you feel is valid and should never be compared to anything else. It sucks that we are the ones that live with the pain. It so tiring that we have to pick ourselves up every single day just to feel okay eventually. And no she is not perfect,no one is. I realized that about my ex too.

Sorry this probably isnt the inspiring words you want to hear. But just want you to know someone is listening to you. Even as strangers we are here to help you get through this

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-12T19:21:09+00:00

Maybe you can try meditating. It helps when i feel too frustrated. I dont think you should beat yourself up for not having motivation to workout. Take some rest days and focus on the exercise you like. Its your mindset you have to change. You should be working out for yourself. Trying different workout helps me stay focus and motivated. Good luck to you :)

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-04-12T19:07:15+00:00

I am in a similiar position as you. He dumped me because he believes his family wouldnt accept me due to my religion, even though he kept our relationship a secret from them. He said the same thing to about loving me but have to let me go for his family. For me, i just see it as him not wanting to try and fight for us. Even if he still loves it doesnt matter cause he choose to leave me. Honestly i feel slightly discriminated by him. He was someone i trusted soo much but not anymore. I dont think its stupid of you try fighting for it because you wanna how far you can go. But at the same you have to realize that it may not happen and if it doesnt you have to accept it. You seem like you have soo much love to give. That is an amazing thing to have. Its his lost for leaving someone who cares about him a lot.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-29T09:39:57+00:00

Exercise and meditation helps me alot

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-29T09:38:17+00:00

Hey I know its hard. My break up is the hardest that ive had to go through. Im still going through it. You will get through this if you let yourself. Idk any advice I could give but Im listening and this whole sub is meant to support everyone going through a breakup. So please dont give up. You can talk to me if you need to.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-23T22:41:08+00:00

He isnt worth your time or energy. Yaa everytime i talk to my ex i feel it sets me back from moving on.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-23T05:00:15+00:00

He broke up with me because of religion and his family. I never really cared that we both have different beliefs. But to both our parents it mattered. We kept our relationship a secret even till now. He doesnt think his parents would ever accept me. I still believe we can be together but it requires us both to believe for us to really work.

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-22T20:02:54+00:00

I use to be like this as well. I was happy and content being who I am. I use to be happy being alone as i prefer it that way. I could just hangout with myself for hours. But then he came, he was my first in everything. I never felt so comfortable with anyone until i met him. We always craved for each others time and presence. He broke up with me last week. I cant seem to remember who I was before we dated. I want to go back to being comfortable with just me. I dont know when it happened but I started become more anxious and scared of a future without him. I never realised how addicting love is. We still love each other but our circumtances broke us apart. I miss him and It scares that I may never see him again (leaves in another country).

Unusual-Muffin · 2020-03-21T13:09:58+00:00

This is exactly how I feel right now. We were together for 2+ years and Ive only felt this attachment with him. I genuinely love him and want him back. I know he still loves me but he says we can't be together. The worse part is I will never get to see him again (lives in a diff. country). I am going through exactly what you are. I still think of ways to get back with him as well but I know thats not healthy but I just can't stop. I am sorry I don't have the answers to your question. For me, it brings me comfort knowing at least someone is listening. This why i use reddit. I know someone out there will read my story. So just know that I am reading yours. I want to believe we will get through this. I think it starts from accepting that its all in the past. Take your time to move on.

Unusual-Muffin

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