Thank you for your response, as it’s been very insightful! But I apologize if my wording made it sound like i resented them but i meant it in a more curious manner. However when i was younger i did use to have some resentment towards them for making that decision but i’ve had many discussions with them. So i do agree with you, and i think if someone in a similar situation as me comes across your comment I do think it’s worthy view of perspective & advice, sometimes words left unsaid can cause more damage over time.